FrenchCanuck Member

I will follow your advices to seek concelling once i get money for it. What you dont understand is its hard for me because there is no one else in my life. My father is never around, i have no siblings and im not close to my cousins and aunts. I dont have friends and I suck at dating (i never dated much in my life) There…

"If you're not willing to do anything, you sound an awful lot like her. " excuse me for still clinging onto the dream of having a damn healthy relationship with my mother!! I only have one mother in my life! Some people lost their mothers when they were little or dont have one at all!! I tried to reconcile, it didnt work.…

... my father was never around, i see him maybe twice a year if im lucky. That being said, im closer to him emotionnally than my mother because we are both sensitive people. He always pushed me to go in the army saying i would be happy there making friends and being away from my mother. Im saying this because the last…

" Tell your boss to hang up. " " This! Tell your boss that you understand this is inappropriate and not to put through the calls. It's not that difficult. " Its not that difficult? omg im sooooo stupid! Why didnt i think of that???? My boss doesnt know if the call is stupid small talk or an emergency. he was just trying to…

i never gave her a key. sometimes i leave the door unlocked when im doing stuff around the house and she comes right in... if locked, she knocks on the door and stays there until i open it.

... I tried to seperate from my mother. When i dont answer my cell phone or reply her texts, she calls my boss at work and asks him to tranfer the call to me. I told her not to call at work for non emergencies. She ignores me. She calls for "small talk" This makes me look bad at work, i dont like it. Its crossing the line…

therapists dont know what im going through, they can only give me adivce on what they learned in books back in school to study for their degree or fill me up full of medication. What is helpful to me is talk about this issue with people who understand what im going through since they experienced it themselves and i value…

I did had therapy when i was young. My mom sent me to a psychologist. The doctor said my mother is the problem. My mother will never admit she has a problem, she has a high superiority mentality, she thinks she's better than everyone else and she's perfect in every way. My mother acts like a total Princess without having…

thank you everyone! yes, i wrote 2 lbs a week... i changed it to 1 lb a week for 1500 calories. Just 1200 cals a day made me feel woozy and gave me a headache. Ill just have to bike more to burn the difference ! :)

Are you serious drosen32? Thats so amazing! Congrats!!! My MFP app said if i continue my calorie intake with the same amount of exercise everyday, I could lose 15 pouds in 5 weeks! Thats real good news to me!! What i like about cycling indoors is that i can watch tv shows, movies and play with my ps3 while exercizing! :)

wow omg thanks! it gives me more confidence knowing other people lost weight with cycling! MFP put my daily caloric intake at 1200, im having a hard time adjusting but itll work out...

Its a case by case basis. I like a little Jason Statham chest hair, but personally I despise heavy haired "treasure trails". Its all about a man's personal chest fur growth - no two men are the same! But if a guy worked hard to lose weight to get his abs, id recommend to wax just to showcase better what you worked so hard…

poutine!

Meanwhile, in the women's only section of the gym.... Some women grunt unneccessarly loud and do it too often. Why do you need to grunt so loudly when you're doing warm up stretches on your mat? I mean, if you were lifting 20 lb weights i'd understand but during warm ups? Sometimes I wonder if they do that just to get some…

Hi! im Chantal and I want to lose 30 pounds by summer so I can be fit enough to enjoy more summer outdoor activities!

Thanks everyone! its good to hear people understands your point of view and tells it like it is. I was tired of having sugar coated answers from people who doesnt understand. I do feel im very pretty, but its true im hard on myself and dont have a lot of confidence. Its attributed by many things (mainly my familly and…

im happy you understand. i too get a lot of creppy old men hitting on me. i dont understand why guys my age avoid me like the plague. and i also agree with you on " And then when I get where I want to be, I'm going to be very picky about who I spend my time with! " because right now, even the so called "nice guys" and…