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Each body is different. If im built with a higher bone and muscle mass than another woman my size and height, 1200 calories is small pickings for me. Thats what MFP fails at... its easy to tell when you wrap your index finger and thumb around my wrist - i have bigger bone mass, and muscle too - with or without the fat. Im…

Darton, " I expect dating for a women is similar to the way a man dates, first is a physical attraction which is what any species is driven towards (reproduction)" May I remind you that, in the Victorian age, women that were "chunky" were more in demand by men and were seen as more attractive than skinny girls? Every era…

:( I feel you MiniChefKriss.People dont understand. It's hard for an ugly duckling. No matter what you do, even if you smile or try to think positive thoughts, guys still treat you the same. Hopefully, we'll change into beautiful swans! I'm 31 and dating men isnt easy...

Well if guys wouldnt of treated me like the crud underneath a shoe all my life maybe I would of had a more positive outlook on men.

I know guys are superficial and mostly driven to pick a girl on looks. Even fat guys don't look at me because I'm overweight - talk about double standards! Why do I know that he likes a skinny chick better than a fat one and not because I'm not smiling or something? Well, I often got pushed off aside because a skinny chick…

im sorry but the fact of hearing i cant have a mother anymore scares me sorry for annoying you all and bothering you and wasting your time ill shut up now

Her boyfriend once pushed me down the stairs. I could of broke my spine and become handicapped or paralysed my whole life I called the cops that night He was yelling like he wanted to kill me. She said she still wnated to stay. she didnt want anyone to know she didnt want me to say anything i told a school concellor a…

thats real good advice but after all that torment, i have no longer patience to deal with her. Her voice is like nails on a chalk board. as soon as she barks an order, my stress level goes from zero to 'i need to kill someone right now redzone" i cant "set boundaries" because she doesnt respect them i "set boundaries"…

i scream because i have no more patience, im stressed, frustrated, and she doesnt listen or take me seriously.

I did. When she does this, i cut off contact for a month. But, she doesnt take me seriously. She texts me a few days later (thinks i was mad and needed days to cool down) But when she sees im not replying.... She freaks out and calls at work, bothers my boss and embarrasses me. Or, shows up at my house banging on the door…

Treating your 29 year old daughter as a 3 year old child as if she's mentally and physically handicapped cant survive without her constant attention and disrespects her constantly and chooses her boyfriends over her daughter when they abuse her daughter and beg her daughter for money to buy crap at ikea when she capable to…

Does anyone here find it frustrating that a mother refuses to sit down to talk mother-daughter and actually finds sitting down two minutes is a chore but rather do her dishes and leave when she's done? She sits down for her boyfriend to talk... She sits down for strangers to talk... But not for her daughter. She thinks im…

- Get therapy. Check out church groups or sliding scale groups. Try different counselors. We are all human and sometimes we may not connect right away with a particular counselor, so try a few different ones until you find one you feel you can connect with. *** I will. - Check out some great books that have helped others!…

Okay... She comes inside my home, sits down two minutes and says with a snotty tone: " Im not gonna sit here all day. I have to move. If you wont let me do the dishes, im going to leave. Im not sitting here doing nothing all day!". I tell her she can leave if she doesnt want to stay. So she does my dishes without asking me…

Im supposed to go back to school next year for college, i dont know how im gonna make it work living on my own but ill figure it out. My plan was to take advantage of the low rent at my mom's boyfriend's income property appartment he made at home, but i think i will regret that decision.... i moved away because she was…

toxic... i always thought when i have a daughter id be close to her and affectionnate.. i would never treat ym future kids that way. i dont know what goes on in her head. she needs help but shell never admit it. not my problem anyway right? i have to think about me. she ruined my whole weekend. im tired of this drama...…

you dotn miss her? you feel happier?

She comes to my place with a huge teenage girl *****y attitude. she goes around my house arranging my furniture and things as SHE SEEMS FIT. she does my dishes, takes me garbage away, then makes an excuse to leave. she wants NOTHING to do with spending quality time with me. This is why i hate it when she makes my dishes. I…

im not balming everyone else. No one in this forum caused the problem between my mother an i. I do blame rude comments and people laughing at me like that "STAY MISERABLE" jerk, "PUT YOUR BIG GIRL PANTIES ON" or being told to go cry somewhere else when this is a forum for motivation and SUPPORT. this is a support forum and…

I do take responsibility for my own life. I have a great job, a house, a car, a motorcycle.... I cant take responsibility over a person's will. Its impossible. You are unable to understand that im between the dilemma over beign hurt by my mother's actions and being hurt to cut her off from my life. If you are a person that…

I quote the jerks and you think i blast the nice people that helped me... Please read carefully before making a bad jugement call.

Thank you for those who were compassionate

I have a problem with my mother, please help. - Get therapy, cut her off from your life But i love my mother, i dont want to cut her off. - STAY MISERABLE great help right there..... i feel so much better!

I only liek the adive given by people who were nice. and who ever said i need to put my little girl panties on, that was rude! doesnt mean i want my crazy mother in my life that it makes me a little girl!!!

hey jaggerhawk, so this guys here is not being a total jerk? i think hes a damn jerk!

Im on a forum full of people that were fat in their lives and experienced being treated like crap because of their weight. yet there are still people here that turned into jerks after losing the weight. i thought people would help me here, not being rude. maybe its easy for you people to throw out people you love in your…

stay miserable? you dont understand you heartless slum. its either no mother or tolerate crazy mother. i still love her, i just dont like the things she does.

what's with the locks thing??? i never gave her a key!!!!!!!!!!! im not gonna STOP LIVING and lock all my doors 24/7 and live like a hermit in my own house so that MOMMY doesnt make a surprise visit and come in my house when i left the door uncloked when im gardening outside.

what pisses me off is when we're with familly and she treats me like a little child (like at a restaurant, she tells me "why havent you touched your vegetables? eat your vegetables, why arent you eating your vegetables? pressuring me until i ate them). When things like that happen, my familly doesnt say anything and…

You guys dont understand. SHE DOESNT LISTEN! She thinks my house is her roof and i have to listen to her like back when i was a child under her roof. it isnt her roof anymore. She doesnt understand I pay the rent and she has to respect MY rules talking to her doesnt work, its like talking to a damn brick wall standing my…