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Hmm...my last breakup. We had dated for about 6 months or so. I had to go out of town on business all week as I travel a lot during the week for my job. So the Sunday before we were together, and got all of our twirly out of the way. And the next Saturday she had bought tickets for a concert that she knew I wanted to see.…

I lived in the UP (Houghton) for 5 years... If the snow is gone by the end of April, consider it an early spring. I know there were a couple of years where it was still snowing or there was still ice in the lakes well into late may. I miss it up there. I want my snowmobile back :(

Wow, no kidding. That is crazy.

All I can say is, "How did I not know about this feature before?" My internet stalking skill totally just leveled up. I may become addicted now to this feature.

I would say to just talk to him about it and ask him why he doesn't initiate. I was that quiet guy in a relationship. The girl I was dating had a really busy schedule, and I was always afraid I would bother her, so I would wait for her to contact me. Then we would talk for hours (of course, this was before i texted, when…

Yes, that is a cultural thing. Her parents would kill her if she thought about being with someone not from her region of India. There are actually a lot of different criteria that a potential guy has to meet in her parents eyes. So glad my parents have nothing to do with who I date or have fun with.

While I think astrology is fun to think about, I don't put any weight into it when looking for relationships. I fit the Capricorn model very closely in most of the descriptions I have seen. Now, interestingly enough, I have an Indian friend and in her culture, they put a TON of weight on Horoscopes. She is looking for…

Anna, I am very middle of the road as well. As far as politics, I vote for the person I believe to be the best for the job (even outside of the 2 major parties). I believe that religion is mostly all the same thing, just represented differently on how you want to interpret it. Usually, if someone is truly passionate about…

First off...big fan of all the new Booby Friday pics. Friday: Going out to a brand new brewery up in Metro Detroit with a friend for his birthday Saturday: Fairly low key but hanging out with my brother and his fiance to get to know her a little better. Sunday: Nothing planned, so will probably be spent cleaning and doing…

*when the shirts/bras/swimsuits/whatever you happen to be wearing at that moment* are coming down.

How you doin'? My name is Jeremy, nice to meet you. Most of my friends just call me J (or Buddy) anyways.

Welcome. There are a handful of us on here from the Ann Arbor/Ypsi area.

Nothing Friday, just going to clean my apt as I have some friends coming this weekend. Saturday, helping with a special olympics basketball tournament wherever I am needed for the morning. Sunday, having friends come over and then heading to trampoline dodgeball as a group. They are curious how it is. And all weekend…

The one main problem I feel would exist with 4, the Singles Tracker, is similar to online dating. There will be a bar full of guys looking for pings, and maybe only 1 woman sending out a signal. I guess then she just gets to pick through them.

See I have always been this way. Have always dated women and ended up in relationships with them. However since I am applying to jobs out of state, that is the only reason I am not looking for a serious relationship at this time. Wouldn't be fair or easy on either party.

This was very much me, and the reason I didn't lose my virginity until just last year. However, I am a very sexual person (hetero in terms of the OP). Now that I have more confidence in myself, I can't wait to find a new partner, even if just FWB. I found out that I am just naturally good in certain areas, or so I have…

Totally understand this. Very much the way I end up acting, even though I don't want to. For me, single and looking for something fun and not too serious. No prospects anymore. Of course, looking to move out of state, so don't want anything too serious right away.

Maybe, I don't know. Just said something along the lines of eHarmony can not match you, and to have a nice day.

I thought about trying eHarmony, but after taking the long personality test, was told that they would not be able to match me. Guessing my personality type must not be easy to match or something so they don't feel like trying. Getting rejected to even have a profile was definitely a hit to my confidence back then.

Have a crush, but she is already taken. So no plans to send out any valentines.

I confess that a meetup group I am in will be going to participate in Trampoline Dodgeball in early February, and after listening to MM describe it, I signed up immediately. Now the time can't get here soon enough.

In all honesty, my dad is why I am on this site. He was always a big guy, and my mom would have guessed around 350 pounds when they met/married (I straight up asked her). Once I hit that 300 pound mark, I had such horrible fears of being like him (he is probably 500 pounds or so now). I could see the way that girls I liked…

I have a nice set of martini glasses that she bought me. No reason to get rid of them. However everything else is gone, pictures, bathroom stuff, present that I had bought her and she didn't stick around long enough to get. As far as doing things differently, not really. Wasn't in my past relationships long enough for…

Was a busy weekend full of going out...and going over my calories! Previous total 169 points. Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point x 30 = 30 points (rough guess with all the bars/clubs) Smiling at a stranger = 1 point x 30 = 30 points (guessing but always smile with eye contact) Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating…

I don't really have a type, I will give just about any woman at least a chance. Though 95% of them are brunette. Most have at least shoulder length hair, as I like to play with it. Height doesn't matter too much as long as they are a less than a foot shorter than me, though even this is becoming less of a deal breaker it…

Friday - Probably hitting up a bar and the comedy club. Hopefully will find someone to go with me, otherwise no worries. Maybe going on a second date to see if things click this time, but really not feeling anything so far. Saturday - Cleaning during the day and getting my place back in order. Then heading up into Metro…

*Raises Hand* I confess I would be willing to help de-stress you. Tho you live a bit too far away. So freaking twirly right now.

I would be able to drive you all home, as I would be right about at the the legal limit. So pretty much still sober.

Might have to turn in my man card for this...but I enjoy cuddling as well.

Where is the 'LIKE' button on here. Do what you wish with it, but make it happen. And the ones that keep going until your mind feels like it going to explode too...bravo!