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Ahh yes agreeing with the just keep your mouth shut and support him was also good one too... :)

Thanks for the advice your the only one that gave me good advice without bashing or thought I was a complete quack! Lol... I see what your saying maybe the whole thought of him not chubby is scary like he would be a complete different person but like you said it will be gradual and my perseption of attraction towards him…

I dont have that much of jealous issues or I wouldnt be good friends with his ex wife and I wouldnt be ok with them talking about things becides their kids...

I mean I didnt give him a hard time.. the topic came up yesterday and I told him my honest opinion but said whatever you do im here for you ... im not with my husband for just his looks I will still love him no matter what... just I kinda felt like maybe it was a moment of not giving my opinion and just supporting him and…

Lol yes real life... me and my husband are like that we go to each other for not really permission but of opinion on somthing we want to do... like he will tell me when his work buddys are going to have a men only night of bbq and drinking he askes if its alright sometimes I say yes sometimes I say no.... but I tell him my…

Im 251 and he told me just lose weight to 200 and im ok with it .. yeah I want to go to 170 but never know I might just stay at 200 for him

He told me the same thing didnt want me to lose weight actually got mad a little... but I told him it is because im not haopy with myself and he told me to just lose till I got curvy cus he doesnt want me skinney fit... and im totaly ok with that it actually makes me feel good in a way that he is happy with what I look…

I did not know that ... I always was told the more muscles you have the more fat is burned when exercising.. that your fat is fuel for your muscles. ... thanks for telling me the right way..

Well I wasnt with him when he was skinney but he told me how he got skinney he said he would in a way starve he has a mentality to lose weight is to not eat and in his pics it showed alot! I love my husband no matter if he went all skinney he wanted my opinion and I told him. I just dont want to see him like I did in the…

And the only thing thats sore is my legs from the wall sit cus ive never done those

Im sorry but there is no need for bashing me.. if you guys read yesterday was my FIRST day! And the reason I thought everything would be ok is because ive been up on my feet back into norma stay at home mommy duties since day6... if I was selfish I would of ignored all the warning signs yesterday and wouldn't of posted to…

@jacwhite22 cotton candy @rachshinn hot cheetos

Haha food didnt come in mind looking at your pic :tongue: lets say melted chocolate !!!

That couch looks like some red velvet cake! Move over let me have a bite

Shurbert .... havent had that since I was a kid.....

[/quote] Sorry I've replied so much but this is a topic I'm very passionate about, as I am training to be a midwife someday! [/quote] Well then ill have to tell you the great news your student brain would eat up!!!!! My son was born at home , unassisted (no midwife or medical help) ..... but heres the good part he was…

I think I might just bump up to 1600 calories.. but surely stay under 2000 calories and maybe not push myself when exercising just till I start hurting.... and then once 6 week is up go full ahead with exercising. ... I do fully breastfeed.. no bottles in this house! This is my second child my first breastfeed till 2 1/2…

i got ur add and added you. I know i do need to eat more fruits and veggies