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Now did you even consider how every single person who reads this will perceive it?

OP was a troll…just wanted to start this little thread. I'm sure they are still reading it...

I think around the same time that being sore from a workout is the ONLY way to determine if you had a good workout.

I think they are blind…they say the traits that annoy you the most in others are the ones you are most guilty of. I do find it funny she's telling people to be nice and sit down when she called others liars in her own thread.

Maybe my you should have been user specific. Because it is interesting the ones that have the hardest time with the forums tend to be the ones that don't post much, don't interact. They complain about how the forums are, but they don't actually try to help people either. Not like the ones here that are day in day out…

Oh was that the one where a few people said they love their bodies and she called them liars?

The thing with what she was asking no one can tell because heavy v light cleaning is different to each person. I didn't see ONE person actually be mean to the OP. Also, people may be blunt and honest =/= rude/mean. No one can predict how anyone will perceive anything and everything they say. If people were to sit around…

Sorry that's your experience…I've had quite the opposite. I've learned so much from these "mean" people on the forums. I wouldn't be where I am with lifting, meeting macros, or lots of other things without their advice. You get what you give with MFP. If all you want to focus on is the negative, then that's what you'll…

You're being mean for calling her out. :tongue: :laugh:

I think this thread might provide valuable info for those of us who are always trying to help people. Do people want the truth? Do they say they want the truth but will cry foul when they get it?

What if I not only carry it but swing the basket around??? Do I burn more calories?

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1455627-cleaning-light-or-heavy?page=10#posts-21652969 It's not even mean. Seriously. Other than the OP getting bent out of shape and another lady name calling.

No one has attacked you. Whereas someone else in this thread has called other people a$$hats and *kitten*. and yet you think you were attacked?

Please show us where someone has attacked someone or what makes someone a "craphead" as you called them. We're actually trying to work out a solution here because it could just be a misunderstanding. Every time we ask someone to show us an example no one can or will.

I make my cat clean the shower… However, I never see him cleaning, I just see him doing this...

And those people that are over the top mean usually get called out in those threads for it by the regulars. Often times the ones that are called mean are not mean at all…and we won't know who the people think these mean people are because no one wants to post what they thought was rude. Just want to post blanket statements…

Truth…every single time. EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. I've had enough people enable me. I've enabled myself. Sometimes I need a good swift kick in the butt. I would much rather be given the truth, even if it hurts. There is more honor and respect in truth/honesty.

Because….attention.

No no no…Your opinion is wrong. :tongue: :flowerforyou:

You are either part of the problem or part of the solution. Paige I appreciate you trying to be part of the solution. It seems others who want to complain about the mean people don't actually want a solution. They just want to whine and get validation that people are mean.

I'm finding it funny that people got called mean in the cleaning thread even though the OP didn't like any of the advice and was the one that got rude and upset, then someone else started calling people who also weren't mean names (which is against the TOS) and now someone who obviously hadn't read the whole thread is…

And she got advice and still didn't like that either. Maybe you should read all the responses. People give opinions on an internet forum because it's an internet forum. Again I'm gonna suggest you read the whole thread because that has actually already been answered too.

Name calling may get you strikes/bans…so it might be wise to head what this kitty is saying. (This is not me being mean, just giving you some advice about the TOS)

That's totally crazy. A couple here asked her to show us the mean posts…she didn't/wouldn't/my guess is couldn't so she's resorted to PMing that to people? PM's are also reportable...

Wait, what? Someone said you were mean and a bully? Wow…just wow. And I second the whole calling someone an a$$hat and *kitten*…lady you might want to read the TOS. Because what you have done is against the TOS.