Wildcat682

I think keeping it real is good. I would rather have someone that loves me tell me how disgustingly obese I am, than have to hear it from a stranger. I find it motivational. On top of that, the people who see you on a regular basis are less likely to "see" a slowly increasing waist line, so when they tell you that you're…

If you feel that he is an insecure *kitten*, then why not leave him now while you are still fat? Weight is one thing. Someone can lose weight. Being an *kitten* is ingrained in someone. You can change, but very unlikely. It's like telling someone who is sunny and pleasant all the time to become more pessimistic. It could…

The problem is that fat girls do not know how to handle attention. This is especially true for long-term fat girls, a.k.a 10+ years of L.A syndrome. This category of girls do not know how to handle the attention guys will show them when they are no longer revolting to look at. A fat friend of mine was happily married to a…