pemorgan Member

I'm also 38 and I would like to also lose 45lbs, have more energy, not cause my body serious damage, and fit into some clothing brands I like.

You could call his behaviour, jerkish, immature, insensitive - but nothing more. He may not have any idea he's really upset you. However, if his behaviour is, as you say, also directed towards his girlfriend then perhaps this girlfriend will one day need your support. If he belittles and criticises her, or is verbally…