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  • I'm just afraid to get off the couch. :/ I am the queen of excuses. Probably my favorite is the discomfort of my gut bouncing up and down when I'm on the elliptical. And there's always the less-inspired "too tired," "too late," "not tonight honey I have a headache..." You have a legitimate concern, but have you considered…
  • 5'1". But I'm 44 and it ain't moving like it did 8 years ago! I tell people I'm 143 and they're all "I wish." Well...I don't want to be!!!! They're all giants, anyway. Let's go kick some short *kitten*, shorties!
  • Christmas Eve, 2008--6 months after baby #2--I had had enough. By May 2009, I dropped almost 30 lbs, was running, in the best shape of my life at age 36! Then in fall 2011--depression hit hard. No exercise, lots of food. I've spent the last 5 years gaining 20 pounds and at least 3 sizes. And I'm DONE. I need to get my life…
  • How timely is this thread, because yesterday I had a total binge on greasy Chinese (felt it afterwards, fo sho) and didn't get my dog walk in because of the stupid really cold rain. The dog needed it, and so did I!
  • I probably don't understand your whole battle--115??? DANG!--but I'll be your "accountability buddy." ;) I do kinda get it, though--I just finished up my elementary ed post-BA certification program--2 1/2 years of hell, don't ever think teaching is an easy job! All the stress and bad eating and not exercising (I'm not a…
  • haven't checked to see if OP responded to this, but here's my take: the value of losing is learning to accept and recover from disappointment. learning that getting what one wants--to win a game, get a good grade, whatever--requires effort.
  • "i can't believe you didn't win the spelling bee! (which, btw, they don't have anymore.) you're a GD IDIOT! i can't believe i raised a moron like you! you can't do anything right!" = emotional abuse "i know you're disappointed, but hey--you did your best, and now you know what you need to work on, so next time, you can do…
  • "why, whatever do you mean, i don't get a corner office with a view and a 6-figure salary my first year out of college?" un. friggin. real.
  • A-freakin'-men. I have 2 boys, 10 and 3. I am also a substitute teacher, working toward an education masters. We've managed to dumb down public education so that a kid can graduate from high school if he/she manages to just SHOW UP 50% of the time. Don't blame the teachers for this--they WANT to enforce higher standards.…
  • i talk like a sailor and have since i was about 8 or 9.. it's a coping mechanism because i feel inadequate because i'm short. at least, i'm sure that's what a shrink would say. ;) my kids (boys) are 3 and 10. i try to "keep it clean" around them, but they've heard plenty of "dammit" and "****" and the occasional f-bomb.…
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