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  • Well for anyone still following this, I couldn't stop thinking about the great replies I got here and also just trying to wrap my head around this problem psychologically. I even talked to a few friends about how this. I finally realized what it is for me. I get annoyed at the idea of eating out because really, I feel like…
  • Definitely moderation is key. Exercise has become part of my normal routine and I definitely make an effort to exercise longer or go to the gym that day if I normally wouldn't if I know I'm going out that evening. I do take fruits and veggies and snacks with me a lot of times when I'm going to be gone all day. The struggle…
  • I have heard rock solid times not to eat after, as well as guidelines such as not eating within 3 hours of sleeping. I've also heard that it doesn't matter, calories in vs calories out (remembering that just because we log daily doesn't mean our bodies care about a daily log). I've flocked more to the last two, which is…
  • Thanks for the ideas. Those are two good ways to look at it! The outings are definitely about the socializing, or at least they should be anyway. I won't lie, I didn't get to be almost 300 lbs because I like to socialize, I got that way because I like to eat! I'm actually not so much of a social butterfly actually, so…
  • I agree, we definitely have to allow ourselves the odd treat. I certainly do that! :-) LOL But if I'm going to go out to a function 3-4 days in a row, I start to feel like I can't give myself a treat 3-4 days in a row LOL. And that is where the anxiety enters: I know if I'm going to have a busy week of dinners with…
  • Yeah I'm going to have to figure out how not to be bitter about not eating what I want or as much as I want. Usually when it's time to go out to a restaurant, I just get really agitated knowing that I'm going to have to go in there and be good when it's not what I want. I'm proud of myself that for the most part, I do the…
  • Yeah it seems eat more to lose more is key. You have to find what works for you, but that is a good place to start.
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  • this is hard but i'm going with...ketchup!
  • i don't love oatmeal. in fact, i hate oatmeal. i add dried cranberries, dried blueberries, fresh strawberries, fresh apple cubes, fresh blueberries, a little brown sugar, in no particular combination or order. I think of what I've tried, I least like raisins and will never do it again and most like the strawberries. It…
  • I'm 6'1" and 233 lbs. I'm down from 288 lbs but still have more to lose to be at healthy weight. My current goal is 200 lbs. It feels so far away. I think of how far and how long it has taken me to get here and on the one hand feel very proud and on the other hand feel very overwhelmed. I used to be very active, but knee…
  • I believe this too. My husband is also good and big and is pretty complacent and accepting of his weight. He loses weight when I am doing well with preparing healthy and weight conscious meals, but that's only 1 of his 2-3 meals a day. He says, "Our kids will eat healthy because they will eat what we make them eat and we…
  • Thanks to you all for the support. It's a long journey and certainly takes more time to lose the weight then it did to put it on! Nice to have people to go on the journey with.
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