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Don't really know his motives, but this here is a huge red flag. Sorry if you have to drive around to check up on your SO then your relationship might as well be in shambles. So as far as input, tell her to lose this dude. The guy should also stop being obsessive.

This never works stop it immediately. Do what you wanna do ladies, but accept said consequences. Same for men. Abandon arbitrary gender roles and live how you wish to live.

EDIT: This ^^ Over analyzing will not help you, HOWEVER Ignoring red flags is also stupid. If he hasn't done anything that screams red flag, don't worry about it.

Brb, internet friendships are cereal business.

Brb, believing that I am so important that i need a note, or personal recognition, in order to accept a new friend to the list.

Moral of the story: Never let a woman on your computer ever.

I am accepting more beautiful people to my FL?

I adjust pants accordingly but honestly though I really don't care, if worst comes to worse I think of as many neutral objects or things as possible.

Stop worrying about the other sex and improve yourself. Don't get me wrong, you must be social in order to meet new people. However, making a "long term plan" to find a mate of some sort almost never gets you the results you want. So, I would say don't say to yourself "I am going to be single", just say "I have this X…

Coming over now.

I think my old army buddy takes the cake on this scenario. Not only did he provide laughs with every story he usually told, my favorite was the one where it was basically him justifying why he had sex with his cousin. Yes it was his first cousin and yes it also involved that style of scenario (family reunion and such). I…

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I haven't shown mine in a while, I will bite OP. This is where I started at about 270 lbs: Now I look like this at about 190: and: I started mid 2011 until now!

Honestly I think it is less about the actual place and more about the timing. Even if you use a funeral as an example, If I solely went to funerals to pick up chicks, not only would I probably be soulless, but that in my opinion would be considered inappropriate behavior. HOWEVER, if you happen to run into someone at a…

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New Years Resolution: I will not make a new years resolution this year!

Happy birdday!

Your motivation for losing weight is wrong. You should be self motivated and require no ones support. If you are not self motivated you will eventually fail.

Cliffs: Men are evil.

In fairness, he was probably just thinking with his dink with his previous message. When men do that, we sometimes come off creepy. (unintentionally) He is probably harmless, if he is asking you to meet him in a public place (and you are interested in him) then there isn't a reason to not meet him. If you are simply not…

Well you can't blame him for trying. I don't know him personally, and obviously you don't either. So I would just play it safe and be insistent on meeting elsewhere first, then going from there. Also by the tone of his messages he seems to have a one track goal, and if you are ok with that, then rock on. However I am…

In on a busty ladies thread!

Stop worrying about arbitrary numbers, go have fun.

I understand your frustration, but you are losing weight for the wrong reasons. It has to be simply about improving you, forget anyone else when it comes to you getting in shape. You have to improve you regardless of someone else's opinion, because if attention from people is your key motivator, you will eventually return…

Dammit, I might be a self proclaimed special snow flake, I don't mind have good conversations on the phone (if the topic has depth), however babbling about drama crap, no. Then again I love having in depth conversations in general, I definently prefer it in person, but I don't mind the phone if the conversation is good. So…

Saying this may be a mistake, but here goes: So I am not the individual that constantly beats the "confidence" drum, but I will say that you have to like yourself. Regardless, if you are saying that because you feel you are just "being honest" about your situation, just know that you are a pretty girl! I know there are…

Of course, and don't get me wrong personality has merit with men as well, exactly as you put it. However, we are visual, we are "simple" in that regard. That is the reality of men. (of course, outliers, etc etc, blah blah) and lol@humpherbrain

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This made me laugh a lot. Yeah I don't use that term either. You are asking men, to stop being men. My response to you is, stop being naive about how men think.