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as good as their answers sound, if he's really shy, you might freak him out. you may want to try a subtle touch and see how he reacts... and no, i don't mean touching his junk... but a hand on his arm while you look into his eyes meaningfully while smiling would probably do the trick...

i'll be a mess and do them all... just kidding! XD C, D, E, F, and maybe M

Paris and Paco... my chubby Diva Dachshund and my needy loving Chihuahua

I LOVE nice legs, period... even on a woman. I'll look and admire on male or female!

Oh GOSH I love nerds! Give me a man with a brain any day of the week!

in others... kindness, confidence, patience... sense of humor i'm still discovering my sexy... but if i had to pick i would say my hair and my eyes...

since i'm marrying tkaawa, you can be my lovah! lolll <3 (for the record, i'm 42)

marry me? :love: :flowerforyou:

tkaawa - 29 or 30?

wow you're so pretty. before and after... and you look so happy and healthy! way to go!

I have one 11 year old boy, at one time I wanted more, but after leaving my son's father, I never found the right guy...

Dearest Ex-Boyfriend that i'm still trying to get over. Please don't IM me. you broke up with me. leave me alone. kthanksbai.

wanttt bump!

you look so amazing! so beautiful and happy!

you're so fine, you make me want to run out and get a job :flowerforyou:

After reading all the responses, I think I have to add my 2 cents to the fray. I am a 42 year old woman, and I've battled my weight since my age was in the single digits. I started "doctor supervised" diets when i was 11 or 12. Medifast. It was horrible, I was only eating one meal a day and by the time I got out of school,…

bumpity bump bump... i can't focus to read it all now xD

oh gah so many... Maroon 5 - Nothing Lasts Forever Mandy Moore - Umbrella Cover 3 Doors Down - Kryptonite Vince Gill - I Can't Tell You Why Radiohead - Creep i can't think of more right now...

i use it on my salad instead of dressing, and i also mix it with my albacore to make a tuna sandwich. so it's sort of a mild, fat free alternative to mayo that way...

*dies* :laugh:

when i grow up, i want to be like you!

1. to be 10 years younger 2. to be financially secure and comfortable 3. for my son to be happy and healthy for the rest of his life

i have to say the swimmer / ottermode is my fav

you have gorgeous eyes and a terrific, winning smile!

He left her for good, Her heart broken yet again, Loneliness sets in.

I died. You killed me! :laugh:

you all are so amazing. thank you so much for your advice and support! feel free to add me and message me! i wish i could give you all big hugs! :heart:

loll this thread is so fun! and yea, this is me... can't you tell by the round faced chubby cheeked-ness? xD

that's a really good way of looking at it... I think it's positive and more forgiving, in a way... instead of looking to be in a lower 10's, you can look back at the higher 10's and say... "it's a good day when i'm not THERE" instead of obsessing on where you want to be.

I will totally start putting my moods too! logging them in some way... i know it'll help, since i can be an emotional eater. thank you both for your input!