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I used my weight as a shield against unwanted advances...after all what man would give a fat woman the time of day!...lol...but then it got out of control. I have a hard time with saying anything that I think might hurt someones feelings. Like if I was asked out and I tell them no. So I just gained the weight...lol...how…

look in your mirror and tell yourself how good you look and how proud you are of your accomplishment...you are the most important one anyway!

if you were like me, most of the time, I would get negative comments from my mother or hubby when I had been really trying to get the weight off, so I would do the same thing. But I was told that when someone compliments you or gives you something, graciously accept it and say something like why thank you for noticing,…