diabloben68

Very inciteful, thank you. I believe I am still a novice with the marriage thing, so I think these are good ideas!

It is quite possible that one of us or both of us is missing the point. My point is that I really don't care what she looks like, as long as she cares about her self. What I think you are getting at is that I want her to look a certain way, therefore I throw away her headbands etc.

Sometimes in life its not our weight that is the problem. Maybe there are some other things that are keeping you from achieving your goals entirely. For me, I used to be wholeheartedly addicted to video games. I would play everquest, Diablo 3, BF3 for 6+ hours a day. Looking back, it was obvious that was a problem, at the…