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Also I'd like to make this VERY CLEAR: Your marriage vows can say WHATEVER YOU WANT THEM TO as long as there's a couple required words said. NONE of the required words include "forsake all others." If that is what YOUR vow said and what YOU beleive for YOUR relationship, more power to you that is NOT what my vows said nor…

My relationship is plenty spicy. Us seeing other people has more to do with who we are as ourselves, and very little to do with who we are as a couple.

Sex isn't all that a marriage is based on. Or at least it isn't in my book.

A+ sir, you win one internet.

That's cool. That's what your vows said and that's what you want your relationship to be. More power to you. If you want to be mono, be mono. I'm nto telling you you shouldn't be. But my vows simply said something along the lines of "I promise to love you always." and I'll stick to those vows myself. I'm poly and I want to…

And some people practice polyamory and don't always separate love and sex. It's like any other relationship, you're opening yourself up to all sorts of things, great feelings and not so great. Many relationships end, it happens in monogomy and it happens in swinging and it happens in polyamory.

*blush*

I'm pretty sure in instances where this happens, it wasn't just the open relationship messing things up. If it were no one would split up, fixing it would be as simple as going back to monogamy and living happily ever after.

I like to believe that the life we've commited to building together is more important than him "liking" someone more. Just because we aren't mono doesn't mean we don't take our commitments seriously. If it turned out that he wanted to be with her more, why would I want to stop the person I love from being happy? Would it…

Incorrect. There are over 1000 federal benefits available to married couples that are not easily avalable to non married and in many instances not available at all to non married couples.

I've been trying to convince the Mr. to let me accept a transfer to London. :P

Idk, social legitamacy for the main relationship? Wanting to show your commitment (you can still be committed to a person and have other partners, try and wrap your mind around it), or how about those 1000+ benefits the federal government gives to married couples?

Thank you! :) I agree, everyone gets jealous, open or closed. Do I deal with maybe a little bit more jealousy because of my open relationship? Probably, because I'm in situations where I have to confront my feelings more often, but trust me, I was plenty jealous in monogamous relationships and not dealing with it or…

Well I am in an open relationship ;)

My apologies, I was drawing conclusions from your inclusion of the baptism reference.

Hear hear. As far as I know, to actually get married (in the states) you have to sign a piece of paper that says that you're gonna be married and they send you back a piece of paper that says you're married. There's no god mentioned on the marriage license/certificate. When the government gets out of the marriage business…

To all the people who are like "Love is only for one person!! If you want your world to do anything other than revolve around your SO you're doin' it wrong!" Then you guys must obviously not have kids (world no longer revolves around SO) and if you do then you DEFINITELY only have one kid (love is only for one person!!!…

I pre-log but I check in whenever I have a change.

I'm a June 29, 2013 Bride too! How exciting! I started low carb last week and I am trying not to look at the scale, but I'm already down about a pant size!!!

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Android app has it too! Very useful :)

I'm pretty much the same way. I want to lose some weight all over, but the dresses are big enough that they hide most of my bottom half :P Jsut need toned arms and a smaller top!

I just saw it again and I have to say I still love the ending ;P

I'm talking Midtown, Downtown, Soho, Bed-Stuy, Kensington, Park Slope, UWS, LES... I make my way around the city and while there are plenty of people under size 8 there's also PLENTY of people above it.

Do you live in NYC? Because I do, and I know, see, and socialize with tons of people who are bigger than a size 8. So many people.

I keep forgetting that we have a wii with a balance board! Thanks for reminding me, I'm gonna have to jump on that! (literally :P )

I loved this movie so much and I thoguht that the ending was a prefect Joss Whedon tounge in cheek commentary. This movie was made not just to be a horror movie but to spoof how off track and insane the industry has gotten and it did it PERFECTLY. What I can't beleive is that the guy who plays Thor is in it! So crazy to…

I think that for someone just starting a fitness routine who needs motivation, guidance, and help getting good form, that it's great. Especially if they help you set out workouts you can do on your own. I just started with a trainer who was a really great match, that I found from zeel.com. She's a little pricey but she is…

June 29th, 2013 here. I have two dresses off the rack, they didn't have the right size for me in store, so I guesstimated... I was pretty off and there's no returns D: So I guess that's just more incentive for me to loose the weight!

I probably will want to go even more. Plus the movie is too fake for me to take seriously. You can tour, but the tours are very strict and limited in what you can see.