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That will be so strange getting home! I think houses feel different when they've been empty a while. At least you are prepared for whatever is in the fridge. Hopefully you got everything out that needed to be out! I can't imagine going away for two months with 3 hours notice for everything!! I think I would have just…

Finally catching up! It's so good of you to do all that for your sister, Snoozie. What a lot you have had going on and no wonder your eating hasn't been perfect! I have no idea of the geography over there and having to look it up on a map to see where you've been. Such a lot of travelling! I'm lauging at you singing the…

Oh wow, Snoozie, no wonder you've been quiet! Best wishes to your sister for her recovery. I am dashing out so will catch up later!

It's not clear how long I've got to wait for the operation. It could be any time in the next year, but probably a few weeks/months, or earlier if there's a cancellation! Yes, I did decide to wait at one point but changed my mind! I'm really struggling to do some basic things now, work is very difficult and I'm worried…

I'm so sorry, Suzy. How awful for you all. At least it sounds like your dad is in the right place and being cared for. Thinking of you: it's such a hard thing to go through seeing your parents deteriorate. And of course, thinking about your own future. Well done making your changes. Yes, I think it does get easier when the…

For some reason the new post update thing wasn't showing, so sorry! That's great that you're president, Suzy! Glad you are enjoying it. You retirees seem to work very hard! I'm sorry about your parents. I hope your mom gets her pain under control at least. I've just been up to see my dad. He is doing OK, waiting for some…

That does sound like a really nice meal, Snoozie! I'm sitting here laughing about you waiting till your starving and eating while you're trying to cook - that is so me! To the point that sometimes by the time whatever I've cooked is ready I'm not really hungry any more (but I still eat it). You reminded me that when I did…

I had been meaning to come back and comment, but I didn't, sorry! I just wanted to say how much I like the "consistency is better than perfection" line. I'm trying to bear it in mind. I've had the same situation at work that I often have as I get distracted and eat something I shouldn't and then think I might as well write…

Sorry for not updating. I am fine! Just busy. And a bit fed up with winter. The snow hasn't been too bad here, actually, but it was slippy so I ended up not going out in it (the worst was at a weekend, so I could stay home and didn't have to go to work). I don't want a fall! I'm sorry to hear about your father, Suzy. I…

What a lovely thought, Snoozie! Wishing you both health and happiness too. It's a new start! I hope it's a great year for all of us.

Merry Christmas Suzy and Snoozie!

I'm glad your eye surgery went well, Suzy. I hope you can see better now, and enjoy the grandkids! Yes, you are both right about hanging in there, and that we just need to work around all these challenges. The temptation is to just give up and eat more because I can't exercise much. I need to stop that kind of thinking!…

I'm sorry about your postal problems. That's really frustrating. I'm thinking of people who get medications, etc. through the post as well. Must be a worrying time. You did make me laugh with the earrings story, though! I have been useless this year with Christmas presents. I have bought loads for my grandson of course,…

I'm sorry it didn't work out for Thanksgiving with your grandson! But it's really nice that they wanted to spend it with you. They were probably right to keep away with such a young baby. I hope your daughter's son is better now. Quite nice to not have to cook though and just relax and enjoy it! Why put off the hip…

Happy Thanksgiving, Suzy! I hope you're having a lovely time. You mentioned that your son and family might be able to make it. I hope they did but hope you have a nice holiday either way.

Good idea about the distraction of keeping your hands busy knitting! I have been keeping a food diary, and it's work that's the big factor, and in fact I can see my weight going up when I've been at work and coming down at the weekends! So all the work I'm doing at home to control eating is getting cancelled out at work.…

Have you seen the nutrionist yet, Suzy? I'd be interested in what advice you got and how it was tailored to you and your hubby. Thank you both for understanding about my concerns about surgery! I am probably going to go for it if they say I can, but we'll see. I have not been good with my eating. Yet again, I start off…

So true, Snoozie. Yes, nothing is easy! And you do lots of hard stuff, Suzy: the hiking the grandchildren, your projects: you put a lot of effort in to have an active and fulfilling life. I think it's easy to forget what we are doing when we focus on what we're not doing! It's good that your cholesterol levels are stable…

Welcome back, Suzy! Well done on the hiking! That sort of hiking has been beyond me for a long time now, and I'm always so impressed that you can do it! Congratulations on meeting your grandson, too! I'm wondering if it's because it's your son (not your daughter) that you weren't invited earlier. I've talked about this…

So catching up. Hope you have a good trip, Suzy. Thanks for the photos of your friends, Snoozie! You are all so brave! I would love to have come out with you! Both of you are making really good points about pushing ourselves and the effect on our future health and fitness. I need to get on track (do I say that every time I…

I have just checked in this morning and my notifications haven't been showing so I missed your posts! Having to rush out to work so I'll catch up later: will read tonight but might be a couple of days before I reply as I am so busy at work. But congratulations on your grandson, Suzie! And I'm so sorry about visiting. No…

Yes, I was quite worried when I got covid as I had been so ill last year with it! But this time it wasn't nearly as bad. Although I still felt quite unwell with it and just slept a lot of the time. Yes, the video calls are great but people I know don't seem to want to do them. I don't know how you feel, Snoozie, but it can…

Well done on the hike! Wow, have you been back since May? Time is just flying at the moment. Well done on the eating too, and for finding something that's working for you. I'm really enjoying my grandson, thanks! I've had covid for the past week so haven't seen him, but the other grandparents have been visiting to support.…

Oh, Suzy, don't be down on yourself! It's really hard, for us and for everbody. I'm in the same place as you and trying not to be too disappointed in myself either because I don't think it really helps. I have just yesterday bought bigger underwear and it feels like a failure as I'd promised myself not to size up again.…

Well done on the Woman's Club projects, Suzy! It's great that you are doing things like that. I normally do voluntatry work in the summer with a very tiny local group but haven't been able to this year because of my hip. Summer has been too hot here for me! Strange weather: it's really hot today but I think we're expecting…

Snoozie, yes, leave that box! There's no hurry! It would be nice to just relax and enjoy your apartment now that it's fixed. Yes, they are really mobilising early after surgery now. I suppose it helps prevent complications. I've been told they sometimes even do hip replacements as a day case now, home the same day! Well…

It's lovely to hear from you Snoozie ... I have done the same thing where I'm sure I've posted and then it never appeared! I'm glad you finally got the work done. That has really dragged on and on, and it must be so unsettling having to move out and back in again, and still be unpacking. But well done on the garden! I…

Thank you, Suzy! I'm over there most of the time helping out at the moment! Is everything OK with you, Snoozie?

Thanks, Suzie, that's good to know! Yes, there's a waiting list, I haven't gone on it yet because there are advantages to postponing (second replacements don't work well). It was several years, but I think has reduced quite a bit now, so maybe two years or possibly even less than a year just at the moment. I still do some…

Sorry, I didn't get any new post alert! Thank you for the update, Suzy! Is everything OK with you, Snoozie? It's been a while. The roads in the North of Scotland are an adventure! I remember the miles and miles of single lane and pulling over to let people pass or overtake. So long since I've been up that way. I have been…