joselo2 Member

that is a really good way of thinking of it. i wish i was rich enough for a smart phone (in b4 everyone say am too lazy to work and get one, i work really hard its true) so i can check out that and think, hmmm not worth the log, it costs to much for cals!!xxxxxx

You must be mistake me for someone else tio when did i ever say something lazy? I cannot think of a single example.

I get that too. Sometimes I hardly see the point in logging if it is exactly the same as the previous day or so very similar! I think the longer I go on, the more instinct i get for what i eat and I kind of know whether i am in my limits or not. Being able to manage my diet like that is what i ultimately aim for, as i…

Thank you ubermensch for addressing my actual question. I was just wanting to see if anyone else was like me and didn't log every day. I would say the main thing people here are sometimes is very very very very very very very very very very very very very judgmental and smug, rather thanmotivated. I work (at least!) as…

I think you all be misread my message. I didn't say I can't be bothered to lose weight (that I now have lost nealry 2 and half stone proves it!!!) I said I can't be bothered to LOG. Dieting is more important that telling people about it, i just wanted some advice about habits of logging.xxx

that is very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very presumptious of you. I visit the gym weekly for curcuit training, and the swimming pool also…

They called me up today, I have my 1 to 1 session next week, yeeeeeeeeeeeah!!!! :)xxxxx

I dunno, I have been called fat in many many various ways and I see many more examples here of comments people have been called, and I have never found a single one of them witty. Am not saying they don't exist just I'm too busy being humiliated to laugh and the people around just feeling awkward. I think these comedians…

I hate that kind of 'comedy' that tinks it is so edgy and cool but actually just gets cheap laughs from being rude to people. I hate that it seems to be 'in' right now. Any cheeky kid in primary school can pull that, nothing clever about that!!! *hugs* xxxxxx

I have good friends but in many ways I am a lonely person.

OMGosh, I know, Wait_loss... when people say Pride is pointless, and why not have straight pride? I am just like, ignoring that because I am sick of even having the argument again! But yes, I think when we are gay and in the closet or just not around other gay people we feel different a lot of the time. Not that being gay…

Course they were; the only reason people do crap like that is as a sad way to make themselves feel big, it isn't because of YOU it is because of THEM and their problem! xxxx

What an absolute tool... this is clearly his expression that he feels embarrassed and annoyed that your friend didn't give him the attention he wanted, and now wants to prop up his poor inflated ego by slagging someone off. It don't reflect on you at all, just him, What an idiot, don't let it get yu down. xxxxxx

'\opinions' what is that all about? People should just be all like awwaaaaahyiiiii, whatever i dunnoo, i don't care, i don't think nothin.

I just hate the idea that skinny girls are shallow and sluts or unhealthy or whatever. You can't judge the character of aperson on their weight, be they fat or thin. I know that skinny can be curvy, but when guys go on about how they like curvy they mean not slim, I think. It is one of the ways that the idea of skinny…

did i ask a stoopid qustion? I just was interested, because i see a discrepency between what i notice guys being attracted to and what they will admit to. gy guys got no problem saying they find slim, toned guys hot, don't tend to go round saying they just like my average body guys hehehe

black ice lolly, because am cool and black you see, also a little sweet aaaii!! xxx

That is exactly how I feel. Sometimes I am too sensitive/paranoid. But also if someone is being negative bout overweight people in generaly, that includes me, so them saying like 'not meaning you' doesn't wash. I rarely say anything though because I don't want to draw attention to it. I don't know if it is good or bad,…

Agree!! I don't feel bad for 'discriminating' when it comes to choosing a partner. My emotions and feelings chose it,notmy reason. There used to be thing back in day in the UK called Pans People, I don't know what it was though. Just sounds a bit like Pan people. I don't think we really have the term pansexual in the UK…

Ha ha, I like that. I must hve Daddy issues or something. I love you daddyyyyyy!!! I hate clusters do, they are disgusting.xxxx

I wish people wouldstop being all like 'Ugh, is this serious??' or whatever, YES it clearly was a serious question, so give a serious answer or go away, that's what I think.

That is fab! I was sad hearing about how life was for you before... people don't realise the self loathing nd social isolation that can results from being obese, as well as the physical. I hope you have a brilliant time at your party! I am only 21 and weigh 382lbs. I started off 406lbs and I was heading in a bad way too, i…

There is no evidence that this person is an alcoholic, that is quite rude. What a mean thing to say! Anywyas, I think people need to be a little less judgemental, someone was asking for help and advice that is useful and productive. If people just want to answer to show how virtuous they are, rather than to help, that is…

No, I think 'I could care less' is correct.I know it doesn't make sense but I think it is like an idiom, or something. I think it was actually more recent change to the latter.

I hate that too, or even worse 'puss'. And that isn't just because I'm a gay guy because I don't mind other words for that part. I knew people would say moist because people always do, I don't get what's so bad about it. I dislike the word 'pop', as in 'pop in and see us.' Partly because it is often used by companies who…

See this is where some of us split. I mean, I LOOOOOOVE food, but sometimes I feel drink is a better use of cals.... because wearen't machines, we have social needs as well as physical needs, and enjoying a night out with your friends, or going to the local pb most evenings is important to some people.I LOVE going out with…

Not hard as such, unless someone has a real problem, just boring sometimes!! I think we need to be realistic that drinking is part of some people's lifestyle and there is nothing wrong bout that, just trying to manage it so you can still manage your health and also enjoy yourself! edit: totally agree yksdoris, drink really…

Sometimes I wish i was one of those people, I am definitely in the kind who eat more when depressed!! But really, neither is healthy, I guess, to have real disturbance in your diet. But more importantly, however it impacts on your diet or not, feeling depressed is the main problem; physical health is not so much value if…

I don't log it because when I come in from a night out little drunk I don't even think out that!! Seriously, funny how even people who eat healthy and wouldn't dream of adding hundreds of cals in one night time of eating would happily do it with food, hehe! Thing is, at least you log it! Maybe you just need a lower cal…

Wll done on the weight loss! Also I don't mean it sleazy but you are very beautiful an always were :)