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Aww, thanks. I get that people always gonna notice it, probably first. but hopefully after that they notice many other things. I just get so uncomfortable and embarrassed when people talk about stuff to do with weight or diet because I am so aware that whatever i say,it goes without saying that i am a fat guy with a bad…

RA= 22 MA= 7 Hahahaha, it's true, i am serious immature

thank you all... yeeeeeah i love the birdy pic, can totally relate to the pink bird!!

hmm, i can see that sometimes i come acrss as rejecting advice, if say i fail to follow it. i just do not wish 2 annoy people, because i don't want to push away that support because i need it.

10. im a 6 on a good day, fact. FACT

Hmmm, i just wish i knew what to say which is not a lie. i feel more guily bout this then any other thing i heard from family :(

....but believe me on the sunscreen.

there is no single thing that gonna mess up your whole life like you think... bad exam results, getting sacked, any ofthe stuff you thik will be the finish of you, it is not. don't get as fat; seriously, battling your way down from morbid obesity is so hard, dont let it get so far gone, you need to listen to your sister,…

A chair breakin on me at school The maths teacher casually refering to me as 'the heaviest boy in the class' (something doing about averages that day :/) Everything to do with PE class ever. As for adulthood- Someone shouting 'fatty' at me in the street when I was on a first date. My friend booking tickets for a show and…

Thank you, you all so nice xxxxxxx

ah, i see, sorted it!

are you sure? i thought it was for everyone to see. do you think is 'friends' only?

Bit of both really. More, specificallymore of things i have to limit myself on like takeaway

Yeah. Whos knows, i might even continue to lose on the maitainence amount. maybe it is a useful step to thinking of the day when i have to maintain the target.

I never met any obese people who have excuses. we dont need to explain ourselves to any of you. We don't owe you anything.

I love this sort of game! Ladtzerlina is... snow white! ok i got no photo but its a painting of me so ok

It is excellent. Not really dessert though so you should have another- ice cream or something.

I agree about the eating too much thing but the article is awful, absolute pile of rubbish.

Quantity over quality, that is what I am about when it comes to food!!!! I have found ways to maximise the amount i can eat while sticking to my cals but i cant eat unlimited amounts, ultimately. But like, the other side to that is i can eat junk as long as not too much... ah yyeeeeeeeeea xxxxxx

This is one of my main reasons why i'd not consider gastric surgery, to be honest

exactly. Sorry if i overeacted, but come on, this person wasn't sayng'hey i used to experience that but now i found a way to overcome it, which i will tell you...'. They were saying 'Huuuh? I don't even begin to understand about this 'wanting to eat more than is good for you' thing you speak of.' If they don't understand…

I disagree. I am not a rude person. I just think we should acknoweldge how people feel without dismissing it, or revelling in the fact that we personally may not experience the same thing.

I am not rude, little or a hater. I just hate when people write about problems they are having and people come in all smug just to say they don't experience it, like they so perfect. I think that is the real rudeness! But whatever, since you aren't reading this.

All these smug peoplegoing on about how they don't experience this should just go away and stop rubbing it in. It is like someone saying to me 'I have terrible insomnia, it is a nightmare' and me saying 'Oh well, as it happens, I don't get that at all... I sleep soundly and easily for 8 hours every night... you should be…

But many of us DO have awesome, satisfying and fun things in our life. I do. I have a succesful career which allows me to be creative and do what i love. I do allsorts of fun things and have many friends, also lots of hobbies. I have an awesome life. I AM awesome. Yet I love eating and am obese... riddle me that!!!!!!!!!

Good point, thanks for the reply. PS i love your username!

Please, I really need some help with this, can someone help?

Your contribution isn't needed then. Whoopydoo for you that you don't experience this, aren't you wholesome an everything.

Yes it does. Sometimes I see a day strecthing ahead of me without being able to eat as much as I want and the things I love... no you can't have another biscuit, no you can't get a takeaway, no you can't get a pasty for a snack. It gets me genuinely sad at times. One day I was eating 2 weight watchers yoghurts, and a boots…

You ignore those nasty spiteful people. You shuld feel good and proud. Partly because of the good you doing for yourself, and partly just because you a human being, worthy of respect and dignity! I have lost 60lbs but am still classed as super morbidly obese. People got their clever comment,s but I try to remember this-…