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That's a good point. Just letting things out, whether it be vocally, creatively, emotionally... we are quite a repressive society. I suppose we're taught that early... when asked "how are you", it's just a generic greeting that should only be answer with a positive. I'm glad that you're healing and that you can admit to…

As a girl, I thankfully don't have the pressure of being a macho man, but I do know that there's a lot of pressure to not show emotions and I'm not sure why. Even as a girl, if you cry, you're being too emotional. If a guy cries, he's being a woman. I suppose it all starts/stops at the home with our parents and kids, but I…

Misquoting must be the Queen on the net then. Because if you scroll down, it specifically says "Suicide and poisoning leading cause of death for 20-34 year olds. Suicide and injury/poisoning of undetermined intent were the leading cause of death for 20-34 year olds, for 26% of men and 13% of women. Factors that could lead…

This is actually a really good point. It was so sad and everyone couldn't believe that he struggled for so long. And suddenly... it's just gone. There's no more coverage, no articles posting on what he suffered from and why. I read an article that quoted another actor (I forget his name) saying that you could tell…

The fact that people can argue over stats when the issue here is that people ARE KILLING THEMSELVES is disgusting. Whether the stats are off or not, you can take that up with the publisher of the article. The fact that people (specifically men that we're talking about here) in the prime of their life feel the need to kill…

I think this might be in the way you take it too. I mean, I'm pretty sure most moms would kill to be called a MILF. It means your body is hot after shoving a baby out of it, which is really quite an accomplishment. And as far as the whistles go, whistle while you work, baby! If someone thinks that I'm good looking enough…

Neither. Lee's Deli for a mealoaf sammie. Say WHHHAAT?! *also was disappointed in thread" :blushing: :grumble:

My doctor said that in order to lower cholesterol you need to eat less meat (you take in the animal's cholesterol) and more plants. A nurse told me that nuts (specifically almonds and walnuts) are great for helping to HIGHER your GOOD cholesterol. Good luck! Unfortunately that's all I got!

First off, I'm sorry that you're both having to deal with this. I found these sites to be really insightful: http://www.helpguide.org/mental/eating_disorder_self_help.htm http://www.anad.org/eating-disorders-get-help/how-to-help-a-friend/ I don't have any personal experience with anorexia, but I just wanted to say that I…

My friend is in the same boat as you. She's part Mexican, part white. The Mexican culture tells her that she's too skinny, but the white tells her that she's not skinny enough. You're not alone. That being said, I have my own body image issues that all have to do with my head. I'm not comfortable in my own skin and have an…

Seaweed. I mean... it tastes like the ocean. Literally. GAG. It probably doesn't help that my first piece of sushi with nori was literally shoved down my throat and I choked and puke it back up. I love certain sushi, but unless it's a soy wrap or is deep-fried, I just can't get over that taste. Shell-fish. My family used…

No. But if you're going to complain about awful food, it should be at least mentioned. Also, it's funny that you think a TV show equals real life. :huh: Fried pig ears Fried picnic on a stick (chicken, tater tots, and pickles)

There are people out there who eat vegemite. I don't want to hear anything about our crazy food-porn inventions when people in the world are eating vegemite and deep-fried bugs and sheep lungs. Also, I could eat chicken masala with naan for the rest of my life. I'm unable to picture on here though. Boo.

High school. :blushing: I was dating his best friend when I first met him, and he waited for me through that boyfriend and the next. He was/is such a strong personality type and so different from what I was 'attracted' to, that the idea of dating him scared me. I sort of knew that if I started to date him, it would be all…

I would stick with your current goal. The fact is that your doctor is using the BMI, which doesn't take into account bone or body structure. You may feel completely comfortable with your goal weight, or you may want to lose more... who knows?! Stick with what you have, and then if you feel good when you're done, stay at…

Because I was too blunt and they couldn't handle constructive criticism. Sorry, but if you ask for an accountabuddy... that's what you're going to get. No loss though. She was a SUPER whiner. One of those who complains every day about every thing. It was actually a relief to be deleted. :drinker:

Hence, "depending on your definition of good". Also, not really sure that comparing a teen idol to a master composer is the same equivalent as comparing a published writer to a self-proclaiming writer. Hint: But who cares? :flowerforyou:

And there were plenty of people who were able to read it without flinching in pain. Her story is based on Twilight, but at least the storyline was changed enough that it's not an actual rip-off. Everything is influenced by something, and very rarely is anything ever an 'original'. It's simply a re-telling of what's already…

How, precisely, do you measure "good erotica"? Whether is sold? Whether it got good reviews? Bad reviews? She's sold MILLIONS of copies and is now making it into a movie. A good major have loved the books. She also doesn't go around bashing other people's writings.......... Depending on your definition of "good"... I'd say…

As a member of Slytherin in the current House Challenge, the term 'nerd' is unfitting. I am an intellect of superior taste, interest, and skill than any muggle. *cough* Sorry, posting too much in the Harry Potter challenge. You can't currently join, but just keep your eye out for next term. It's SUPER fun. I also love…

If they're food, nutrition, kinesiology majors, and think that ONE WEIGHT is the proper weight for ALL BODY TYPES... where did they go to school? I mean this in all seriousness, because it's sort of a huge deal that anyone in the health industry thinks that 160 lbs is too much for someone who is 6 foot. You may not think…

I say have a talk with your sister. Let her know that her comments are hurtful, even if she doesn't mean them that way. If she made a comment about you being a 'heavier' girl, I'd laugh and say sarcastically "Because we ALLLL know that 100 is SOOO heavy." And then roll my eyes and walk away. Honestly, if it was my sister,…

I agree with this. I think a tablet should be for a longer amount of time of success, as it's quite a big reward. And the idea of rewarding her independence by doing something with her is great. It helps reinforce that you're there for her.

Because it's full of knowledge on losing weight, has a great support system, and is normally full of understanding people in the same boat.... but every now again you get that random a$$hat who just wants to be a useless jerk... (In case you can't figure it out, I'm talking about you.)

You could try raw milk, which actually tastes pretty different to whole milk (in my opinion). I, however, don't see anything wrong with drinking whole milk. I get organic whole milk, love the flavor more and find that it hasn't stopped my weight loss. Cheese on the other hand..... > <

Also, it drives me crazy that most people who live in San Francisco get their panties in a wad over people saying "Frisco" or "San Fran". As if using a nickname for it is a capital offense and summons the devil. WHO CARES?!?!?

Warsh (Wash) Same with Warshington. It's WASH-ington, people. I once knew a guy from Chicago who called me "cookie". Except he pronounced it "cuuuuukie". Still makes my stomach do silly little flip-flops for no reason. Cinnanim for Cinnamon And unfortunately, I used to say pacifically for specifically.

Are we whips and chaining it, or D&Ding it? Which flavor of freak are we preferring? :devil:

A fight with his mom and now he doesn't want to hang out?? What a ridiculous excuse. You went out of your way, above and beyond, to make sure that you were available for the weekend. While you should be understanding of his feelings, he should also be understanding and considerate of yours... which is exactly what he's NOT…

I normally do a string cheese or a greek yogurt. Sometimes a piece of fruit. Small pretzel bag w/hummus. You could also do some popcorn.