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I don't have a type, don't really believe in types. I will say, however, that I do find curvy women more and more attractive, now that I'm older. I like thin women, too, however. :-) I'll also say that personality is number one for me, something that perhaps wasn't the case 20 years ago. I'd prefer to date a happy, funny,…

Uh oh. Now we're going to have a bunch of ladies here pissed because they *weren't* asked for nude pics. --P

Just total ownage. "Why can't they respect me for my suffering soul?" he says somewhat sincerely, while exchanging junk pics with the masses. --P

Completely agree. It's a bit disrespectful, actually, even though I realize the OP didn't mean it that way. If OP is a pic hoarder, great. But he needs to reorganize his albums. I'd suggest saving all nude pics into one folder entitled "Hydraulic Valve Quotes" or something of the like. Guaranteed that no woman will ever go…

While you are quite attractive, I'm sorry to say all men think of other women, even when in a wonderful, committed, monogamous relationship. So don't take it personally. It's unrealistic to think your man will only be thinking of you. It's not typically the ex he's fantasizing about, however, if that makes you feel better.…

On a (slightly) more serious note, I highly recommend NOT having a serious relationship at 23. Wait about 10 years. --P

You can flash your boobs all you want (actually, highly encouraged). But then don't whine that many people, especially those who don't know you very well, tend to treat you as a girl toy. --P

Maybe wearing a shirt? --P

She has a watch? --P

Duly noted. --P

Whao... Helloooooooo, Jen. --P

?????? I'm kinda missing how anyone can have issues with obstacle races. Smoking, ok. But obstacle races? It's like saying, "Lots of women have issues with my gardening, so I wanted my cards on the table..." Or "eating brocoli." Or "walking"... --P

Sorry, but while I agree both write longer than average posts, the style and efficacy are quite different. It's like having Emily Bronte date a reporter for The Sun. I could be just jealous, however... ;-) --P

Kit likes it rough, and Lacroyx is a Zumba dancing teddy bear. Unless there's a deep, dark grizzly hiding inside, I don't see it. --P

Not so much the place as the intent. I don't see any issue with getting someone's number at church, a funeral, etc., so long as it was tastefully done, and you weren't there to actually meet someone. But chance meetings happen all the time. It's so hard to find quality dates, if I happen to meet an interesting lady at a…

Idk. I would say Mike and Kit would make a bad couple. Otoh, they'd look very nice together. :-) --P

Not sure if we'd make an excellent couple but we'd definitely, absolutely look good together... ;-) --P

You know, I used to be just like you. Now...I'm washin' lettuce. Soon I'll be on fries, then the grill. In a year or two, I'll be assitant manager...and that's when the big bucks start rollin' in. --P

PM me with that and we'll see... --P

Son... you wanna keep working here don't you? Yes. Stay off the drugs. --P

I have little doubt that Mike would lead the church choir if it guaranteed him action with a 9/10 Spanish woman. Wasn't it Henry IV that said Paris is worth a mass? --P

I love it. You're now going to church to pick up women. Can this get any more cynical? Perhaps you could find some p'tang among volunteers at the local soup kitchen, so pretend to care about the homeless for a couple of hours. Or rent a dog for an afternoon and go to an animal rights meet up (combine this with dog sitting…

Are you sure he's better looking than she is? Did you ask the girls you've been dating if they agree? --P

No, that's not what I said. But I've explained it twice now, so I'm done. --P

No, they don't contradict each other. I said you shouldn't be surprised that young men assume you want sex. You have never met them, you meet on the internet, and you agree to a first date. That's not so typical (older woman, younger guy, no previous contact). I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just saying many men, especially…

So you never said "no" to anyone who asked you out... And surprise, surprise, there were many men, especially young men, who wanted to sleep with you! Can't you see how you were perhaps giving off mixed signals? If an older woman goes out with a younger man without knowing him at all beforehand, it shouldn't be a huge…

But aren't you against sex before marriage? Doesn't that complicate your analysis a bit, making it much less black and white? Perhaps many of those men were interested in both sex *and* a relationship? I think few men (and women) are willing to date someone for many, many months or even years, without sex. Many men (and…

I realize "manipulate" can carry a somewhat negative connotation, but this doesn't have to be the case: manipulate (verb) 1. Handle or control (a tool, mechanism, etc.), typically in a skillful manner: "he manipulated the dials". manipulation (noun) 1. Shrewd or devious management, especially for one's own advantage. Focus…

This, more or less. I hadn't yet worked my feelings through when I agreed to meet her on New Year's Eve. We had actually discussed it the day before, it was just a quick confirmation before we said goodnight. It wasn't until after I got home soon afterwards that I realized it just didn't make sense, there's just no spark.…

I think that's quite a generalization. It's like saying every 23 year old woman who dates a 40 year old man is a gold digger. Go out with the guy and enjoy yourself! Just don't break the poor boy's heart... :-) --P