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Nope... I'd still say leave him... For better or for worse is the vow that comes to mind.

I was totally thinking the same thing!!! I'm 40 pounds over where I was when I met my husband.... 4 years and two kids later. Never ever once has he mentioned my weight for good or for bad. Sweetie, I think you know what you need to do. You're on here asking to make sure you're not out of your mind. You're not. His…

I couldn't agree more. I don't "diet" per say. I don't believe in not eating particular foods because then I just want them more and I will absolutely lose control and binge on them. Everything in moderation is okay, for example, instead of 4 cookies, I have 1. Plus, a lot of diet allow you a cheat day as something to look…

Well, first of all, congratulations for making the first step. Admitting to ourselves that we need help is just so damn hard! Coming onto a community is super helpful because there are so many of us that are on here for the same reason: we need help. I came on MFP a couple years ago and was pretty successful for a couple…

I'm only on day 4 of this, but I've been on every day, and I plan to continue that. Feel free to add me. I need some motivation too :)

Hi Mike! Welcome :) I'm new (again) on here. Feel free to add me. This is day 4 of my current journey.

I was pregnant last summer, and I got my suit from Motherhood. It was a two-piece tankini. Summer lasted from my 4th - 6th month, the suit was slightly big on me - it was a medium, but a small would have been WAY too small. It's still in great condition, and I plan on using it again this summer now that I have a second…

Hello ladies!!! Hubby and I due for baby number 2 as well!! Baby number one is not yet 6 months old! We are due November 21. I gained 50 pounds for our first, and I am actively trying to NOT gain that again this time... especially since I still had 15 pounds to go to get to my pre-pregnancy weight (and was trying to lose…

Me too!!

I've gained 8 and I'm only at week 10 :( This is why I came on to MFP. I need to make better choices, hold myself accountable, and exercise more. I gained 50 pounds during my fist pregnancy, and I don't want to do that again!!

Yay above poster!!! Thanks!!

Pregnant and looking to keep myself healthy and in check... then after delivery, to lose the baby weight :wink:

This above post is awful!!! If this person really thinks that what your husband did is okay, she needs serious therapy (in my opinion, of course.) Please do NOT listen to this person!!!

How awful!! I have also spent time with men (yup... more than one) who are verbally abusive and controlling. His youth may have a lot to do with his immaturity; however, that is NOT an excuse. I agree that you should sit and talk and to him about the effect his words have had on you. If he doesn't understand or does not…