Goddessmaker1 Member

Many here have this self righteous mentality because they have nice bodies most want. Some people are negative periodly and because this is online folks go all in. Sadly I have seen folks be real snarky and not supportive. It has made me delete all my friends here and just use the site to log.

None. I am in this weight loss thing solo really. I frequent certain website and we chat there but I don't really call that support. Maybe that is why I haven't lost anymore weight since last May. I don't see how people are living with their men. That would make things a bit hard.

Your post made me sad. Don't you know your family loves you no matter what?!? You have to do this for you so you can give the very best to your family that you love dearly. Love yourself and be gentle.

I have been in the stall since May. I went to the dr on Friday and she said there may be an issue because I lack sleep. Like I function off of 4-5 hours and do it all over again. She also told me no more than 3 days of working out. It will be hard but I will give it a month or two to see any results. I just want to meet my…

Pageant 2012 which was in Sept.

I can understand the mind set here but I'm actually embarrased of the opposite of not being fit. It's embarassing to take pictures and do things while being fat and unsigthly. For me that is motivation to keep trucking and moving. Eventually you will build enough steam to not care about anyone who isn't on the positive…

I am having a hard process doing this because I'm like scared to eat.The time I did lost 2 lbs inbetween this stall I ate alot more but once I went back to the gym I was micromanaging my calories. I get scared to eat over 1800. My TDEE is like 2100 or something range and I feel like a quarter back eating that. But I need…

It's mad funny but not funny to see a guy go through this. I think about this all the time because the type of guys that come at me think I must be a easy fat **** or will hold them down or something money wise..I'm much to fly to even entertain but it still pisses me off.

I think the ratio of men to women is a bit off. I wish there were more active men here. I am a bit miffed at some because all they have on is nothing..I see another view on the ratio too..

People do it because they are tired of feeling ugly and worthless because that is how society takes on fat people. I know I have thought about taking something to get these last 90lbs off. It took a yr to get to 70 I don't want another year to lose the last bit. For some weight hinges on a lot of other things.

Since I'm not really into the holidays I may just fast all together for all those days so I won't be worried about doing tricks for the holidays. I will probable do longer workouts too in order to keep my mind off of such. But if I were to do anything I would eat off a saucer and no leftovers at all. Like only eat that…

Hair or no hair is all good. But a nice smooth head can be very sexy..not all can do it though because their heads aren't shaped right..but a nice smooth round one you can just rub your finger tips all over it and give nice massages..

@mavrick7 honey I could wash my delicates on your abs very nice.. @josephVitte we are going to get you to smile honey. You are surround by fine women of all shapes and flavors..as a little boy I know you would smile if you went into the ice cream shop ladies are the adult ice cream.

I don't know honey I'm more of a silver dollar than a dime lol. I might give you cavities or diabetes chocolate as decadent as me and all lol..

You don't have time for that.Shake that ish off and come on. You have greatness to show.

Isn't the penis a muscle if so thats the major one. If not then the arms and abs come in a close 2nd.

Yes I'm intrigued abit. I haven't dated a white guy then he has all that hair that I could pull on for various purposes.:drinker:

I hope I'm not being too forward but I'm very surprised that you a guy a penis holder is having a issue. I find chicks have more issues in finding a mate for long term or doing anything. To me men have it so easy because your like the prime piece of meat on the table at dinner,everyone is fighting for the taste of it. I…

Honey you good because I would have broken that chicks nose period. Who the hell are you with your ugly behind..I'm a bit mad now let me relax. My pet peeve is folks who talk to me. I don't know you bro please leave me the hell alone and mind your business and do what you came in here to do. I don't like people esp at the…

I'm chocolate,divine and single sadly..don't know if I'm one of the ones that gets looked at on this site..

Honey I need you to have a seat after you get through with the treadmill seriously. Only your self-concious self would feel this way. **** anyone who has anything to say. Like are you going to allow someone who doesn't give you any at night,pay any bills or anything of value in your life stop you because they looking. No!…

Honey is something wrong with you really? Get out of bed because there no point to being in bed all day unless something is wrong. If something is then get to the bottom of it and then keep it moving. Your alive and many didn't see today nor can move so get to getting.

Possible but I don't know if he can handle such decedance such as me I am pretty chocolate and melt in your mouth not in your hand..

Long as you fine and can catch it if I throw it I'm good. But I do like the 2nd and 3rd option dipped in chocolate.

Confidence is key but honestly you shouldn't have much to worry about. I want to say something but I would get banned from this site. However as you continue to lose weight and release certain things inside you will be seen as somone that is attractive. Make sure you know what you want so when it comes you recognize it.

Your nice they would have gotten told a few choices words and later their car tires would be on flat. *****es don't fluck with me like your stupid. I don't tolerate idiots breathing in my air. Your soo cool to run that far as my feet would collapse after my two miles I do. They mad bc they can't run..

You have to want it for you. Not because of private health care fees or a husband or whatever. When and if you ever decide to take your focus on being the best you can then and only then will it happen. I chilled out for a good 4 months. I have been depressed because of my money issues and work situation. However this…

I am one of those that when stress is at a all time high I stall. My body is like yea no. I lose all desire to workout and eating right is out the window. I may not eat at all or I eat comfort crap. I know it's easier said than done but get to the bottom of your stress and remove it if it's possible. You are important so…

As many have mentioned you better start getting your life in a thrift store. I went from a size 22/24 now I'm down to some 12's and 14/16..no way in world I would be able to go to a normal store while I'm still losing. I refuse to look sloppy and unpolished wearing baggy clothes. Tailors cost too much to me or at least in…

Just me being me makes me feel sexy..it's not a feeling it's something I know I am..