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Always the perfect ones having issues lol. If only that one day wouldn't damage the chunky ones lol,you will be fine just go back to focus. I know how stress does a person as I just quit working 2 jobs bc of that. It does make it hard but your a figther...look at that waist.

Honey don't worry about children of the internet. I removed every mfper bc I just couldn't be bothered with the fake pep talks and the gloating. DO YOU and take care of yourself. The weight will come off in time just focus on health and nothing else.

At my fattest I did kickboxing and boot camp. Do the best you can do each time and you will get better and faster and just be able to push much harder. Get after it!

I concur even as a fatty. I will say it's bigger than the shallowness I see often on this site. Society as a whole abhors fat folks. It's the worst thing you can call someone. You can be vain,airhead,arrogant,a douche etc and it's ok but fat just burns folks souls to no ends. Those that are fit are hailed as being the best…

Before anything weight wise you will have to get to the bottom of your depression. Like I can tell it's a deep one. I speak from a very personal vantage point. When you start caring about you on a real deep level not that surface I'm going to be cute foolishness level but a deep I'm important and deserve the best level,…

I swear some are totally not below the surface people. You defintely need to look into changing meds and then make sure your taking time to rest fully. You have alot on your plate and stress is a killer. You may need therapy or a really good objective friend.

Failure is a just another way to learn how to do something right~ Maion Wright Edelman I defintely can relate to your thoughts here. Don't allow the shame of binging get in the way of moving forward.

It looks fruity and I'm a chick. I abhor it. Much too frilly for my taste. I prefer lifting,cycle or something more male focused.

Exfoliate your skin and just use a tinted moisturizer if you can. Let that peel do what it does before putting on foundation.

Thank each and everyone of you, even the last post. I really just needed to get that out so I can move on. I can't really share with people in real life as most don't get the depth of me that comes with all I want to do. Understanding was well received through the post here today, thank you again. I defintely know I would…

I hate to break up the bro meeting but this was very enlightening and inspiring. I'm dealing with the same. Thanks OP for writing this.

I'm in the exact same boat. It actually is weird for me as I do desire to have a traditional life. Yet I don't see much changing as I don't see the population of men getting any better. Sad but it's life.

Check the emotional as you will never fix the outer stuff til that is correct. I grew up poor too and I have seen first hand how I have dealt with things by trying to live the life I wanted back then now. It's not pretty. Why do you want to lose weight? Focus on that. Check your pride,it's very offensive to your own self…

Prefer to be in a lasting quality relationship. But have been single since 2005.:cry:

I hope this thread actually produces NSV's. I will go as I know most people on this site are surface for the most part. I can say I can function which has been something I haven't been able to do in a long time. Like I'm alert and can think. Depression defintely kills all concentration and ideas flowing. I cut alot of…

As long as it's sincere and with a good motive it's fine. People can pick up the other type. I prefer folks to speak rather than just stare.

Shaming is just the nature of life sadly. Everyone wants to be above the next so shaming of body, money,race etc is sadly done. But happiness with one's self really is key.

When I started eating alot of salads and fruit my body bloated and the other thing happened as well. Once your body gets tapered off you will be ok.

I find that men who are overkill about how a lady makes herself up has some insecurties. Most times women who wear a bit of makeup look better, and therefore more attention comes. My ex fh was that way and I have met others that way. I'm a former mua so I wish a joker would tell me how to do my face. I don't tell you how…

Fried chicken. I so didn't want to write that for the racial connotations but since I have begun my healthy lifestyle and can now feel what foods my body is ok with I had to let fried foods go pretty much. Even trying to slip and get Chick Fila my stomach still says a few choice words with me. Oh and cookies.

He seems to have persistence. In this day and age that is rare yet nice!

No I hadn't yet. Do you have one of the older devices or a newer one?

If you have actually boobs anything from a C and up don't go to Victoria's. She is not equipped for that. She is a sales thing for cutesy items. Now for me I went where they can do good fittings either a Lane Bryant or if you have one in your area a specialty bra store. There is one in my area that does bras for those who…

When I started 2 years ago I just sorta did things and added things as I went. Like when I first started I bought alot of those supposedly healthy tv dinners. I would workout 4 times a week and ate very little. I stuck it out as it gave me something to do in the evenings and lost up to 70lbs. I added double workouts,…

You woke up today right? Ok then you have a new start. Screw anything anyone else has to say in regards to slipping. You ate it and it will not destroy you. But if you allow it to over take you then yes it will cause you to not reach your goal. You need to remove failure from your vocabulary attached to you. When you…

Sadly no if I was a old cougar yes but since I am at that age I would have to pass.

It depends on how it's said. Some women don't like the term hot because of all the undercurrent meaning. I wouldn't like that either as it's not morally something I represent unless it was a from a spouse then that would be awesome. Oh and where's the guy who said he would strip and dance for being called hot. I normally…

First I'm soo sorry for the loss out in Moore. I know it really is something to grapple with. I would say Walk away the pounds would be a good video you can find for free on youtube in it's full version.

I guess some don't know when they have been blessed body wise. Hating your body be it jokingly or not isn't good energy to put out there. Embrace your pear shape and make it the best you can. If your wanting to make it better try upping your upper body strength training.

I guess I don't believe in revenge. I would have said my piece respectfully and removed her from my life. I don't get down with toxic people.