Compliment or ignore?

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  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
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    as a fattie myself, if I just got done with a set and turn around and our eyes happen to meet and you gave me a friendly thumbs up or "awesome work bro" or something then it would be cool. It won't put me in the spotlight.

    But if you go out of your way and come up to me and say "OMG you're such an inspiration and, like, totally awesome that you're moving your fat butt!" then this puts me in a spotlight. Even if you said it while we're alone and you put it in the gentlest possible way, it would still feel weird.

    If you happen to meet eyes, give a kind smile and possibly thumbs up. Thats it. Carry on. Keep your cheering for friends here who expect it :)
  • Goddessmaker1
    Goddessmaker1 Posts: 114 Member
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    As long as it's sincere and with a good motive it's fine. People can pick up the other type. I prefer folks to speak rather than just stare.

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