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Your 100% right I did turn him down. I was hurt that I was pushed back to the very last few minutes. He still had to shower and get ready for work. That's why we talked last night. Seems like he wants to satify himself and leave. He had from 7:30pm and he waited until 9:00pm. He works nights and I work days... I wasn't…

Hi! I just wanted to thank you all for taking the time to reply to me. Tuesday night was good and then went really bad: I was making dinner. Turkey sausages on the George forman & microwaved corn. He did show interest kissing my neck and arms around me. I breathed to him What do you want to do? in a take me like fashon…

@msmith2020 - Thank you for responding!! I am not offended at all... He is a little overweight. Not by a lot his weight is not an issue, he could lose a few if he wants and he is ok where he is on that. My weight is still up there. I started at 414 and I am now 289. I have great curves and the spare tire is deflating. My…

@blair_bear - Thank you for your insight... Oh, I believe you and I really appreciate the ideas - I will definitely keep them in mind...I made an appointment for therapy too BTW! Love the profile pic!!

@ruthc69 Thanks so much for responding - I have a lot to comment/respond to you on this so I will edit and do later...

@fatboypup See.....Thank you for responding :laugh:

@Quasita thank you for your response... I am going to see a therapist. Marriage is a two way street. Thank you for your opinion.

@icerafta Agree'd - I am going to make a therapy appointment. Thank you soo much!

@ErinBeth7 I know there is no right answer. My post read I was looking for other peoples perspective. thank you

@fiona2785 Don't be sorry....We've been talking for a longggg time now. I am making an appointment with a therapist this afternoon. I am glad be able to vent and hear other people perspectives.. Thank you so much!

@downinaggiela @meggawatt Thank you both!! I feel great.:happy: No, It doesn't sound awful - I am/was tempted to cheat but I not doing it. I made my vows and I am sticking to it. If after therapy he will not "work" with me then I am going to seek separation. I should not have to beg & chase - I am not hideous but I feel He…

@BerryH - Thank you for responding No, he is not on any meds. I can tell you he says that he doesn't have the drive. He has no problem with getting an erection. I am going the therapy route.

@preaser - thanks so much for responding I am going to do the therapist route...I know I just wanted another perspective. I always play devils advocate and give the benefit of the doubt.

@lullaby10 - Thanks so much for responding.. We have been communicating about it for months now - I am going to do the therapy route....

@Spanntastic12 Thanks for responding.. We been talking over a long period of months now. He has no problem with his erection, He just doesn't want to do it or just as fast as we can get it over with. I am just going to do the therapy route.....I think he likes being married and having someone take care of him but not the…

@seanorawe thanks for responding!! I did 11 years of doing the telling - sometimes he was tired or said tomorrow and it gets long forgotten. But watching baseball/football or hockey is fine....don't get me wrong I can watch it too but if I stop asking for it - would you come to me for it.....or wonder why. We spoken over a…

@pittskaa - Thanks for responding. I don't know what to tell ya....I am besides myself here...I wish you the best!!!

@ @abcmom03 - to make matter worse I am hitting my prime and am going nuts!

@hbrittingham - Thank you so much for your thoughts!! Yes, he is still seeing the therapist. His says he has no drive and the therapist feels it is from the mild depression. No pills as of now. He has no problem with his erection. He doesn't want to spend 45minutes in bed with me - just do it and get it over with. His…