4themoney Member

you know i think you're awesome and amazing and gorgeous!! and funny and sweet :-) continue the kicking a@@!!!!! i am super proud of you! :heart:

this has become my attitude. i like the number going down on the scale, but i like the inches and clothing size going down even more! i'm down like 7 lbs in the last 5 weeks and i'm also down 6.75 inches! the inches are what is making the difference in how i look and how my clothes fit. the 7 lbs alone might only be water,…

great job!!! you're looking great! i found that if i did what people would consider ACTUAL cardio, i would get really hungry ( especially if over 30 min of it) and i don't really want to be hungry, because that kind of hunger i have a harder time making the right eating choices, LOL. so, i don't do true cardio anymore. i…

i just think the age thing is funny. we all know that in our 20s we thought we knew everything and that our *kitten* didn't stink. we knew it all and were invincible. then, life happened! and suddenly you realize you know jack. even less than jack. only through actual life experiences can you learn and grow and actually…

again, i love you even more. why do people not realize that comparing the average american to a famous person is flawed from the beginning. if we all had people who did NOTHING but make us look good, we'd ALLLLL look that good ALLLLL the time! but, we don't. if we could afford to have every picture of us airbrushed before…

i love you too!! ^^^

evan marc katz writes about this A LOT. i'd have to find the news letters and blog posts, but because to boil it down. if you are looking for a relationship and you sleep with a guy, the way to tell if he's feeling the relationship and not just a booty call or FWB thing is his level of interaction with you after you start…

i didn't say anything about being a bully, YOU said the bullying part. and i didn't say anything about them picking on others YOU said that. i just said they are usually arrogant jerks ( usually). and of course not at first. in order to get the alpha spot a wolf, or dog, still has to "go up against" the others. i've been…

true alphas dominate. trust me, my father and ex are TRUE alphas. my father controlled his company. he was senior, had the most clients, EVERYONE knew who he was. he wrote books, was on TV, the radio etc. Has buildings named after him, so forth and so on. My ex, same way. He's the reason the gov't is where it is in terms…

TRUE alphas aren't the nicest people usually. they can be quite jerky. maybe not throwing lamps or bullys, but more like arrogance than confidence....... my dad was an alpha male, he was arrogant ( a lot of the time) and my ex is an alpha. he is arrogant ALL of the time. people quit their jobs because of him!!!!! he is a…

this is the type of wife i was. i LIKE that role and i would do it again. unfortunately for me, it was and wasn't what my ex wanted. so it made life VERY difficult. no matter what i did, i was wrong.

If number 1 was like my dad, only my age, yes. I'd marry him. My parents are both millionaires because of my father. He is not lazy nor a homebody. He's an amazing man that was born into the right family, at the right time and met the right people at the right time and made a ton of money in his younger years. So, if I met…

Do you know trust fund kids? I do. Were you raised w trust fund kids? I was. Was everything handed to you? I was. I walked away from the money for a reason.......... It's not all its cracked up to be! I have fleeting moments when I wish I could have that lifestyle again and raise my kids in it, but then I do a reality…

for the last two weeks, i have given up soy, gluten, sugars ( all kinds), corn, eggs, diary, and peanuts. i feel great!!! tons of energy. weight FINALLY dropping! at the end of this next week i am supposed to add the foods back in, one at a time, but i'm really enjoying all the side effects of NOT eating any of those…

i approached at guy first on saturday night. i was at a church dance, about to leave to head to the gym for some late night cardio. i walked past him and another guy, they smiled said something and out the door i went. this particular guy i have noticed at several dances and he's on a FB group page always posting hikes…

i AM!!!! we need to meet :-) we live SOOOOOOOO close!!!!!!!! there is an 80s band gonna be at bunkers!!!!! you need a night out, right??? ;-) http://www.bunkersportscafe.com http://www.reflexlive.com/fr_home.cfm and gonzo's nose will be at bunkers in feb too!! have you seen them? their decent. i saw them at the racetrack/…

oh bruce!!! you know how i feel about you ;-)

my kids got out of school an hour early today cuz it was gonna start snowing 30 min before the end of the day, LOL!!! i really do need to get out of VA

i played for zach. he's been so generous ;-) i believe in keeping things even........ tit for tat ;-)

my kids went into school two hours late yesterday because we got an inch. in VA's defense, at least where we are, there are sooooooo many unpaved roads and hills ( base of blue ridge mountains/ AT) that if the buses can't get through school is usually cancelled!!! that would never happen in chicago when i was a kid ;-)

night shift as a nurse, can either be a cake walk, or the worst shift to work. i would still rather work the night shift. it fits better with my night owl personality ;-)

thanks ;-) i think you're sweet and adorable too!! ((HUGS))

it's cool. really, it is. i don't let it affect me in any way shape or form. it just makes me laugh because no one i know in real life would call me any of those things. *I* am the person that people want to be friends with. i make friends every where i go, and talk to/ dance with anyone about anything ;-) i am not trying…

if you ran into any of us in a bar who would you approach just on looks? If you talk to us for 10 minutes, who would you turn away for personality? 2) Ladies, same question... ---- i would not approach any of the men in SP at a bar. 3) What # would you rate yourself? ---- i don't rate myself. i don't see the point. it…

i don't sling insults :-)

you've got what you've got and you need to learn to live with it, deal with it, change it, improve it, whatever. and people need to fix themselves before they start passing harsh judgements on others. no one is perfect, everyone has crap they need to deal with, improve, fix, whatever. people deserve respect because they…

i would love to poke fun at your lack of height ;-) but all i want to do is jump on and never let go!! i want to memorize the lines of your back...... and shoulders....... and arms......... sigh

i like short guys. :-) and you're comparing two things that aren't really fair to compare. if you compare a 5 ft man who weighs 350 lbs and doesn't bathe to a women who fits that same description then yes! agreed. but to compare that man to a women that is "overweight" well, what exactly does that mean? do you mean she is…

i think that people's level of judgements are something that can be changed as well though. people don't have to be SOOOO judgemental. 5 ft 350 lbs is unhealthy, end of story. no one would dispute that. that person needs to make a change for them, not for anyone else. but, since no one knows their story, passing judgement…

this is why i have to believe that this is another area men and women are very different in. i know for a FACT that 100 men in a room and my friend ( that i put above) and i would definitely NOT rate them the same. in fact most of my friends and i wouldn't agree on where they fall.