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i've tried. i'll try again this weekend, but they NEVER turn out, LOL!! they took that one and it's the BEST of the ones we took that day hahahaha

people tell me i look sad in that one though......

ok, so the profile pic here, then the one with curly hair submissive one. then me under a green tree with curly hair and the last one is of my feet facing the ocean...... thats it though. the full body image of me on the rocks, is the only pic i have of my body taken by someone other than me in the mirror....... but i…

well, this is one of them. this profile pic is the main pic i can put the others under my profile pics here. the second is the one that was up that i was told looks submissive.

i want to mash mike's with the other one, LOL i don't know how to though

mike, i actually laughed out loud at that, you ARE A FUNNY GUY ;-)

thanks mike.

yeah?? this profile pic is the one i have up on match.com........

it's not like other christian churches where you are ostracized for being divorced. i mean, adultery is different. but, divorce without cheating is not the end of things for you. i have known at least one women that was married and divorced like 3 times or something like that, LOL. but, she moved back west. which is where…

ok, so i mushed some stuff together let me know what you all think :-) Hi! I am a single mom. I've been divorced for about three years. I have a full and exciting life that I would like to share with a special gentleman. I am old fashioned. I believe in taking the time to develop a serious relationship. Some qualities that…

i do. where i am, it's pretty much a family town. there are a HANDFUL of people that are divorced ( like myself) but not many. i have one friend who has a brother, but in texas. then, there are two other girls my age that are divorcing but i would never get involved with either of their ex's. then i found out about another…

you know what, i'll take whatever anyone wants to give me in terms of advice, thoughts, suggestions. the good, the bad, and the ugly!!!! i was with my ex from 19 until i was 33. he was my ONE and ONLY real relationship. and he was abusive from about 6 months in and on. only i didn't know it was considered abuse for a long…

to whomever came to back me up, thank you. i appreciate you looking out for me, but it's ok. i'm a big girl. believe me, there is NOTHING anyone can say to me that will hurt me. you can call me names, put me down, be as ugly and nasty as you want. it won't affect me. and i won't be angry or hold a grudge or be judgemental…

what does YMMV mean? my mom says the same thing you do. "what guy in his right mind is going to get involved with a women who has 5 kids?" i don't message guys. i messaged you, asking a question, but you wont' even read it so. oh well, LOL! yeah, i was told by a couple guys that i ended up becoming friends with that they…

no, it's not a deal breaker, it's just an ideal. the issue with those sites is that there are so few members in my area. like maybe 10. otherwise we're talking 100+ miles. i joined on sunday night because my girlfriend told me to. she's the one that got asked out by the guy that messaged me first. :-)

wow. ok. thanks. i am actually really proud of myself in how far i've come since leaving my ex. :-) i was called a *kitten* and slut and more by him. i was told, by him, that i should go get a job at The Bunny Ranch, since that was all i was good at. I was accused of having affairs because I emailed guys from high school…

yeah. i have to agree with you. i figured it would scare guys off, but maybe it just makes them see me in a less than serious light. like you said, a fling wouldn't care too much, and 5 is kinda overwhelming to CHOOSE to get involved with. thanks!

ok, so how would you describe a woman that lives alone, has friends and hobbies and activities. does her own thing most of the time. who goes 2.5 years without a date or physical intimacy just fine. who is able to care for her home by herself, but accept and ask for help when she needs it. who doesn't need a man for money,…

he didn't message me on match. it was an LDS dating site. which is why i surprised that he took the convo that way, but asked her out on a date....... well, i have had ONE relationship in my life, my marriage. and it was bad. from the beginning. i don't know what i want. i only know what i DON"T want..... my ideal guy…

i deleted all of the pics....

ok. so, yeah, i have zero clue how to make it not sound like any of that stuff. :-) i have my act together, which is why i don't need a guy........ so, what do i do then??

well, i had like 5 days left on my membership when i put that up. and no, i don't want to date anymore. i'm tired of weeding through. so, i put it up as, a hail mary. MAYBE someone is looking for a friend. but nothing more. ya know? i have always figured i had self confidence. but maybe i don't. my reality is that i don't…

thanks! i haven't received a single message or wink since i put that up. so i assumed it was sending the message of " not gonna happen" instead of " i'd like to be your FWB." LOL!!! ugh. i am TOO independent. i do stuff ALL BY MYSELF ALL THE TIME. i thought i pissed off guys because i don't wait for them and i don't want…

well, here i do it as part of the fun of MFP boobie fridays, LOL! i don't mind as much the comments, but when i couple those with what i get via online dating it gets discouraging. i did stop for awhile because it was too much.

this is what i have up at match.com right now. my profile is hidden since i can't figure out how to delete it. At this point I think I'm best off looking for a friend. Maybe a chance for more, but not initially starting out as dating or going on dates. I know I'm not the most gorgeous woman on the block, but I am very…

I don't meet men in person. Ever. Haven't since I was 19. It took me a year post separation to just LOOK a guy in the eyes. And another year to respond w words. It's been 3 yrs and today I confidently looked a guy in the eyes after he Spoke to me :-)

This actually happens a lot of the time. They conclude ( verbally to me) that size I have 5 kids I must Love sex..... Inevitably the convos get awkward at that point. That's where it all went south w the guy that cancelled on me..... Not that I had 5 kids, that apparently was ok. He concluded I loved sex and made a couple…

So, she responded last night! The gist of her message was that she is beginning To doubt any girl was 100% straight.... Lol!

no. i am simply stating your friend is not wrong. that doesn't have to mean anything to you. if anyone in my house NEEDED antibiotics, i would give them. but we don't get sick. end of story. my children do not get sick, do not miss days of school, do not end up with bacterial infections. viruses, you don't treat with atbx.…

i have worked pediatric oncology ( kids with cancer) at CHOP ( um, top ranked peds hospital), general peds, maternal child, mother baby, and in a 60 bed level 3 NICU. different strokes for different folks. not to mention, some people don't really educate themselves, by choice.