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i have plenty of guys that call me, text me, ( as friends) that say nice things. i appreciate it, and it's super sweet, and i love them for it, but it's not the same as having a BOYFRIEND. i think, for me, i do miss the physical aspects. ( it sounds juvenile, but i love kissing. i miss it!!!) i won't do the casual thing…

i confess, i had to lie last night :-( and i felt so horrible lying, but it had to be done. i went to this play, that a friend was in. it was fine, cute, but OH MY GOSH! it wasn't good. and it was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO long!!! we were there almost 3 full HOURS!!!!!!!!! there was so much down time, and the acting was, well, it…

well, i'm glad SOMEONE found that funny ;-)

nope. i'm too comfortable in my loserdom. i'll happily sit at home alone on the weekends. :-)

<-- i confess i'm a little late to the booby party, but wanted to play too ;-)

oh, LOL!! nah, i know we are. i know we don't often make sense to others, especially men :-) plus, i don't hate :-)

thank you :-) you're very sweet too! i call my reaction an over reaction, acting like a spoiled child because like you said, i know there are others that look at me and think i'm the one is a good place. the lucky one. i am ETERNALLY grateful for all that i have. which is why i don't let my singlehood get me down, and my…

thank you! you are very sweet :-) i do try to be level headed about ALL things! i have been really good about making these years about me and my kids. i didn't date for 2 of the three, at all. i just started a year ago. and it's not like i've steadily dated for the past 12 months. i would take several months off here and…

i feel better. i wasn't happy to hear that he met someone first, but that was jealousy or immaturity or whatever it was. not something i'm proud to say i felt. but, today, i'm fine :-) spider solitair is super easy to play!!!

LOL!!! thanks ;-) the girl who is teaching said it will be me and three other guys ( who i am guessing are all volunteer FFs or rescue......) so, we shall see! it's not my ideal weekend, but it will keep me from sitting at home, alone, playing spider solitaire :-)

i confess, that i just put my youngest two in the tub, so that i could get 20-30 min of peace and quiet :-) also that's ive created a new diet, the greek yogurt/ diet coke diet, LOL!!!!!

i confess that i have seriously thought about getting a tattoo that says " by invitation only" in calligraphy ( think wedding invite). my hang up so for ( for the past 3 years) has been WHERE to put it..... it means VASTLY different things based on location...........

you are soooooo beautiful, said in my best maya rudolph, in bridesmaids voice ;-)

I'm kid free this weekend. So, Friday after I drop my kids w their dad I'm going to head to golds for an hour and then to a play a friend is in. Saturday I'm going to the gym and then at noon to a CPR class. I'll probably go skating sat night or try and do the tiny bit of Christmas shopping I need to do. Sunday is church,…

I confess I want my son to love hockey so I can buy cool hockey gear and daydream about my Days as a previous puck- bunny :-) lol!!!

Mike!! I see your pu$$y!!!!!

I don't drink, but thanks ;-) I have been trying now, for a year off and on. I've been single for three years. I do single very well :-) I focus on a million other things. Dating certainly is not the focus of my world, nor is it in the Forefront of my " things to do" list, lol! That said, I would love to find someone I…

oh i know he's not a loser. i'm just feeling sorry for myself. like i said, it's stupid and lame. i know :-) i'm probably jealous too. blah. i have to take my kids ice skating now. and then i'm gonna drag them to the gym so i can work out.......

why would we hate you?????

if i were into girls. but, i'm not :-) LOL!!

oh i know there are men just like mike. i've enjoyed reading their conquests and such. but there are men that aren't nomadic in relationships. they want "the ONE" and over at BB.com they call it 'oneitis.' LOL! the part that rough is that they treat "the one" like they treat "not the one." so, she doesn't get that in his…

he's 3 so, it's super cute from him. both of my kids ended up jumping on me. they stand on my back and jump in the air and then land on their butts. it's a good ab work out, LOL!!! but, a 31 yr old woman...... it would be a come on, not cute. i'm not into girls, at all! i kissed one once and it did absolutely nothing for…

OHHH. i think you're cute :blushing:

who is patrick????

i confess the most action i've seen in awhile is coming from my son, LOL! he poked my boob, is now pinching and poking my butt and just told me to go get in bed so he can jump on me :-) i can't stop laughing!!!!!!

i have never rammed them. i don't ram. :-) and yes, i am enjoying the male dominated view. it's very interesting, but at the same time simple and ineffective most of the time. it comes back to " how is that working for you?" whatever i am doing right now, is NOT working for me. So, i have to change. i can accept that and…

people where i live are not approachable, nor do they approach. LOL! for me, it's kinda like " online dating or nothing at all" but i do understand that means a majority of the guys are looking to hook up. and it's pretty clear :-) since i won't do that, i weed em out fast ;-) i have noticed though, that i've stayed…

that's so awesome!! the dads i've met have seemed normal or ok, and then the issues start creeping in. ugh. in my town there are several single men on match.com, however, none of them have interacted with me on there! where i lived, is family central. there is like a 1% chance of finding a second chance in purcellville,…

i wanna find a guy like this. daddy, but knows what he wants and how to have fun. good for you!!!!

i don't think you can compare NOVA to any other part of VA. even Western loudoun county, where i live is not like the rest of NOVA. BUT, people in NOVA are just different!!! i grew up in IL. chicagoland suburbs. we had a second home in WI, that i spent a ton of time at. i went to college in DE. talk about culture shock!…