4themoney Member

oh i am, but there are no offline prospects of any kind. so, it will just be me, myself, and i :-) i was single for 2 yrs before trying dating. a year into it, and i'm just not cut out for it. it's all good! i'm going to refocus on weight lifting again. i was happier when i wasn't even talking to guys, if i'm being totally…

makes sense.

i'm so gonna start!!! ;-)

what am i doing wrong?

so, you did ask???

have you ever asked someone why they pulled a houdini? i always wonder what i did or said or didn't do or didn't say, but i've never asked. i often wonder what would happen if i did........

yeah. i went on match, and he's on there, LOL! has been for a little while now. so, apparently something went down that turned him off. i guess i don't understand the whole " standing someone up" "blowing someone off" thing. why not just call and cancel??? then again, i guess if you decide not to ever see someone again you…

ok. i gotcha! makes sense :-) i wish i had a way to meet people in real life. i just don't. i live in a sea of married people, minus my ex LOL!!! he's like the only single male in my entire town!!! YIKES!! i'm not enough of a gym rat to meet someone there, plus i always have my kids. our activities and vacays and church…

oh i was just looking for what other people do. not what i SHOULD do. i don't contact. you blow me off, i don't contact you. i don't call and say " where are you?" or "where were you?" of " what happened?" i just let it be. i WILL typically give someone three strikes and then you're done........ that's about it though :-)…

ohhh, yeah. totally agree with that!! :-) there is no next. i'm done trying to do this. i told carl last night, that if this didn't pan out i was quitting. being alone is better than dealing with other people's cr@p. :-)

why do you think you trust someone you meet in person vs someone you meet online?

no more? care to elaborate? :-)

we did. for tonight. just like last sunday.

i haven't met a single guy offline in the past 3 years. but, i would have to guess i would be........

well, he blew me off again today...... no phone call or explanation of any kind this time.

all i can envision is laying in the MRI machine..... and it's FREEZING in that room! LOL i wouldn't even know HOW to fake an orgasm. do you just moan and scream a lot??? why fake one??

my mother told me, my entire life that everyone around me will lie to my face. they will only tell me what i WANT to hear, not what i NEED to hear. she told me that she was the only person who would ever tell me the truth. and you know, for a very very very long time, i believed her. so, i never believed anything anyone…

i thought it was a thread about sex. lots and lots and lots of sex!!!

eh, my mom has always been like that she is who she is. like i said, i TRY not to let it actually sink in and get to me. but, sometimes it's there, in the back. and it doesn't help when most guys seem to come off as only interested in sex. i know, i need to make sure i give people the benefit of the doubt ;-)

yeah, he was. we talked about it. i mean, he had been so honest and forth coming about so many other things! like i said, the good, the bad, and the UGLY!!! he told me when he called that he knew his schedule sucked ( and really it's fine because it's no worse than my own schedule!!!) and that he was thinking about me, and…

a friend of mine went to a 40th bday party for a friend of her hubby's. it was a surprise party thrown by the wife. she spent something like 25,000 on this party. she hired a live band, rented outdoor furniture and a stage. had it catered. hired women to serve drinks and body shots. these women eventually were identified…

i think what you're pointing out is a difference between sex as sex and sex with the belief that it means something much deeper...... you only want ONE woman, but you have no problem having SEX with hot twins. sex can be just sex, it doesn't have to mean any other kind of connection. that's where the whole "human" side of…

having chickens has been interesting to me, regarding sex. roosters have to have sex like ALL. DAY. LONG!!!! every 5 min. they don't have any kind of appendage that gets inserted though. hens and roosters have the exact same anatomy! but, he can produce sperm which is deposited every time he does the deed. what does the…

there's a forum for that ;-)

seriously, most of the are married men :-/ and some are down right XXX!!!! but, i still laugh. :-) and they all start like this " i never send messages like this but,.........." LOL!!!

yeah, baby. what DID you get??? did you forget already? ;-)

i confess, i love some of the messages i get when i put up boobies, or legs..... some are so crass, but they make me laugh! LOL!!!

hope, fourth on the top row!! it speaks to me :-)

i second this!! i have a serious crush!

she is MUCH braver than i :-)