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i know loads of baptists that get TANKED often! i've seen some of the women get so drunk at neighborhood parties they start FLASHING the crowd! the baptists i know are some of the heaviest drinkers i know, LOL!

i stopped drinking years ago. like 2000. some stuff went down with my ex and it was ugly so I refused to ever drink around him again. then i got pregnant and had babies for a couple of years. the ONLY times i have had any kind of drink since 2000 was around girlfriends that i KNEW i could trust. i have refused to drink…

oh my gosh! i had an incident like this starting in march!!! we went on a couple of dates over about 2 weeks. he was ready to say i love you, move in together and get married!!!! i was like, yeah, NO! well, two weeks after our last date he CALLS ME to tell me he met a girl, they were in love, he was moving into her place,…

almost every guy that i have spoken to, or gone on a date with, has had an issue with me not drinking. i can't say i understand it at all. they get all uncomfortable even if i'm sitting AT the bar with them! i've had some make comments about lowering inhibitions, etc. they don't even bother to get to know me, to learn that…

THanks! I wish i knew how to post them in the tread. LoL! my goal has been to lose the fat and maintain the muscle. my ultimate goal is 19% body fat!!

i start week 5 tomorrow. this week i am down 5.25 inches altogether. up 0.6 lbs. I will take it!!! :-)

i know people are saying this is a weight loss OR a fat loss program based on what you eat. MY feelings are, this is a fat loss program. it's designed for optimal fat loss, which will translate more into inches lost than pounds lost. fat loss will change your shape, weight loss just makes you smaller of the same shape. i'm…

THIS! no one has an excuse for not being able to work out for 25 min. and since you don't need anything but your own body for Alpha, there is no excuse that you don't have equipment either. it really is the ZERO excuse work out program! coupled with the fact that people are seeing amazing results in a REALLY short amount…

oh it's horribly unrealistic and some of their info is down right wrong! lots of advertising in there too. from what i have learned, they do massive dehydrating before weigh ins, especially the last weigh in, which apparently is never actually live! most of the contestants gain back 10 + lbs immediately after the finale.…

years ago i did. i ate quite a bit. i was pregnant with my 3rd and she ended up having a horrible soy allergy, that lasted years. so, i cut all soy out of our diets. we've never gone back. i found alternatives that i liked better, tasted better, and were better for you :-)

Ditto!

that's why i put up those links. he talks about how the guy who calls that night or weekend looking for plans knows how little you require of him. he could be "into" you, but not like boyfriend "into" you. there is a difference! he is a guy and gives the usual things to look for from a guy that shows you are more than just…

i didn't read these all the way, so they might not apply http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-to-know-if-youre-wasting-time-on-the-wrong-men/ http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/a-checklist-to-determine-that-hes-just-not-that-into-you-once-and-for-all/ http://www.yourtango.com/experts/evan-marc-katz/how-tell-if-guy-likes-you…

evan marc katz. he has a whole blog about this :-) he's a dating coach for women.

when i FIRST tried online dating i just had a profile head shot up. that was it. i remember this one guy writing back and forth a whole bunch, flirting like crazy, talking about going out that weekend, etc. and then he asked for more pictures. i just sent him a couple more head shots, and he was like " sorry, you're not my…

the changes seen in my facebook challenge group are amazing! i mean, 25 min, 5 days a week, for 5 weeks. some of the women have lost 3-6 INCHES in their chest and 3+ inches in their waist and hips! some of the men have lost a LOT of weight for such a short amount of time. so amazing and so inspirational!

LOL!! you're not alone. i didn't sit down and solve it, but i thought about sitting down to solve it!!! i think i got distracted by my kids and forgot about it.

It sounds good in theory. I know that based on my face guys seem interested and keep messaging and calling, but once they get the full body shot, they usually poof. So, you could end up being really into someone's personality and then meet them and either not be interested at all, or actually really turned off by…

i am in week 4, but i wasn't pleased with my "bringing it" in week 3 so, i repeated it this week. doing week 3 doubles day tomorrow ( saturday) and will start week 4 on monday. so, i'm a week behind now, but i'm good with that. i'd rather repeat and ace the week than keep going know i half butted it! :-)

often when people drop their calories they lose weight not because of the calorie drop but because of the carbohydrate drop....... usually the first things we cut out of our diets when dropping calories are carb laden. i was going to suggest to you one of two things. either increasing calories by 100/ day, OR exchanging…

In my opinion, no. you have nothing to worry about :-) I am not an expert, but from what I saw on Monday you should be just fine!!!!

happy birthday!!! have a great weekend!

great job! i am in my 4th week of T25, but i am repeating week 3 over again because last week wasn't such a stellar week. it's amazing how much better you get at each work out every time you do it! speed 1.0, lower focus, and ab intervals are my faves. i haven't weighed in in several weeks and haven't taken measurements in…

i was at king dominion in VA on monday, and sadly there were several people that either could not fit once they got to their turn, or they realized in line they wouldn't fit. i don't know HOW big they were, just that either they sat and the bar or harness wouldn't close and they had to get out, OR i would hear them say in…

this is SOOO me! more work out clothes, socks, shoes, gear. i think i have a million protein shakers now, LOL!!! i thought about another cool and random side effect of getting stronger through strength training. -- i can pick up any HUGE bag of food at the feed store ( dog, chicken, bunny, cat) and carry it to my car…

This one!!! What a great and awesome side effect!!!!

these are alll so great! i love hearing other people's random side effects of losing weight! i hadn't even thought about bowling balls or sitting in chairs! the decrease in libido is kinda a bummer...... i wonder if there is anything to the chill out on the cardio and lift more?? my ex spent 2 hrs in the gym every day…

i see a HUGE difference! put them side by side and i bet you'll see it too!! the other thing to remember is that losing pounds doesn't always equate to changing your shape. the change of your shape needs to come from dropping fat, not just pounds. when you lose pounds you will get smaller, definitely. but, that won't…

I am an aquarius and i befriend everyone. I have no problems just being friends with someone, it's pretty much a prerequisite for me. If we aren't friends i'm going to have a hard time dating you. if i say " we are just friends" that's never going to change. we will always be " just friends." i can also date someone and…

i think it's the insecure ones that ask questions like that.....