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we had classes on sex and how it all actually works ;-) i'll never forget the first time i had to use a condom catheter on a guy......... i got to actually watch, from a medical standpoint ;-) we also gave each other breast exams, LOL!! there were two guys in my graduating class....... i don't know if they were given the…

i've been thinking massage therapist, phlebotomist, ( when i get the body i want) personal trainer, EMT/ rescue, substitute nurse at a school, or in an office if they have one, job at one of the gyms, job at a place like southern states........... those are some of my ideas so far :-)

i'd have to agree with this, sort of. personally, i wouldn't get involved with a male nurse. but they would definitely be outnumbered. there are SOOOO few male nurses out there. and there are a lot of single women in nursing........ ;-)

ya'll are no help because none of your suggestions are realistic for me :-) -my ex used to tell me to be a stripper/ work at the bunny ranch. so, yeah, thanks for that. makes a girl feel REAL good! -i have kids, can't work on a ship or go crabbing for a living. -i don't play piano. -i have zero interest in working where 60…

i say, since you went out 4-5 times, you call and not text that you don't want to see her anymore. call her and tell her you aren't interested in dating her anymore. i mean, chose your words better than that, but just be honest. why did you accept the invite if you weren't really interested in seeing her again????

i didn't say i'll ask them before we meet. i said since i'm online dating i will ask if they are because i know they're online, i can see it. if i were to meet the same person out, say at the gym, i'm not sure i would ask if they were dating others. because i wouldn't KNOW that they were looking still. does that make sense?

Ok, so top tier might be famous people that none of us will ever meet much less have a chance At dating :-) I still say its subjective. Maybe if only just within sight of the judger..... 10 women to choose from, one will stand out. The interesting thing about beauty is that it is so subjective!!! None of us define beauty…

i could be wrong, but top tier is subjective. what i find attractive you might not be interested in at all. so, my top tier is different than yours. again, i could be wrong ;-)

hanging out with my kids :-) they have to be back at school jan. 2 otherwise we would be in disney world right now to ring in the new year, grumble...........

i think the worst thing that has happened to dating has not been internet dating, but mainly smart phone technology. it's a doubled edged sword and it can work as equally in your favor as it can against you. we ALL carry our cell phones with us at all times, unless we are CIA or work in a SKIV ( of however they are…

yeah, i am just trying to figure out what would be the BEST part time job with high male volume ;-) my friend was teasing me about this christmas eve night. i felt horrid, but didn't want to just sit at home by myself so we went out to the festival of lights in DC. she thought it was so funny because i walked out of the…

i agree with this, kinda. if he slept with girl #1 on the first date, and then again on the third date, and she doesn't know he's dating anyone else, she could already be thinking he's NOT dating nor sleeping with anyone else. no one knows what SHE is thinking. and since he hasn't told her he's dating anyone else she might…

i guess my biggest fear about changing things too much is that i'm back to weeding through MORE guys that could be players... i'm hesitant as it is. yes, i know it doesn't hurt, etc. but i'll talk to anyone and then i have to watch my Ps and Qs and give out my number only to find out that they want nakey pics or are…

gotcha. i see what you're saying :-)

oh i see what youre saying. i don't mind if they aren't LDS and they drink. i do mind if they say they are LDS and they drink...... a friend of mine met a guy online, they met had drinks, had sex that night and then casually dated for a couple months after that. eventually he moved in with her, but they never made things…

i have myself as christian/lds and never drinks. and i have HIM as never drinks, or socially drinks and he can be any of the christian/ whatever :-) do you think i should change it more than that??

hmmm, i don't know. i didn't grow up around any mormons :-) i know a couple families that have trampolines now, but it's not limited to them being LDS. i am getting my kids one though, LOL! for me, it's because it's a fun way to spend time outside with your siblings and even mom can get in on the fun! oh, i don't drink,…

mars and venus on a date addresses this kind of situation. apparently there are stages of dating and you are supposed to move through them in order, to figure out if you want a serious relationship with someone. and part of the stages are moving into exclusivity...... which is where you are. the girl that you have slept…

yeah, i'm finishing up these next couple of weeks then i'm done. i've met a lot of people online, just none of them have turned out to want to be in a relationship or are looking for one. so, it probably isn't for me :-) i don't have any way to meet anyone from church either though. when i go sundays there isn't even ONE…

on match i chose none at all and socially for drinking. you can choose more than one. i did a search and there are actually several pages of guys from 30-45 in a 40 mi radius of me that have don't drink at all. the guy that i went on those couple of dates with ( and then he poofed) most recently, he was a NON drinker.…

i don't know. it annoys me reading it the other way. so, i do it this way :-) religion isn't a deal breaker i suppose........ yes, there is a lack of single LDS men in MY area. but, there is a general lack of single men in my area too, LOL!!! Non Utah Mormons don't get married AS young. I know several guys in their mid to…

I do. it's christian/LDS. i'm not going to change it. mormons are christians :-) i have that i'm looking for christian/ LDS and christian/ protestant. most of the guys are either christian/ protestant or christian/other though a couple LDS guys have looked, they have that they drink which means they aren't really…

not complaining. just updating. i'm am very grateful to be done with the "players"!!! i mean, i'm sure i can still end up with one or two, but i think they are less likely to bother me now. which is very very very nice. :-) if i could move to AZ, i would!!!!! we'd make a great couple ;-)

ohhhhhhh. gotcha ;-)

he wasn't much over 25 if i recall correctly. she was like 30, and he might have been 26 or 27. the thread is there if you wanna check ;-) i personally don't care if he was exaggerating or not, my point was his number would have scared her more than likely. so, he was never honest with her. she dated him for like 8 mo, but…

i just got my kids back :-) it's been snowing, sleeting, freezing rain, all day! so, we are going to spend it indoors, watching movies and opening gifts from my dad and his wife.

i agree with this too.

exactly!! there was a guy on BB.com that posted about a girl he was seeing. she was ready for a committed relationship, he was dating like 3 other women at the same time. he posted his number was 146 people that he had slept with in the past 3 years. i was willing to bet if she knew that number she wouldn't have been…

i personally think it is. unless you're talking net worth tied up in homes and cars ( which is debt...). but, 401K, IRAs, savings, etc those mean more to me than a credit score. i don't have a CLUE what mine is...... but, i have money put away, i have retirement set up, i rent my home ( because i'm gonna move in 2014…

see, guys don't want to hear the 'casual' aspects of your sex life. i have been told this by sooo many males now....... it's quite interesting :-)