idwolf

Making it count means using it at the right moments, when you feel elation, and not just at the end of a sentence as a good-bye. If it becomes coded into your daily language, then you may never know if the other person truly loves you, because they are just doing it out of reflex.

It's not healthy to look for problems where none exist. If someone is willing to save "love you" then be grateful. If they are not showing affection towards you, then you need to address that problem head on, but someone can be just as cold when they say, "I love you". The problem isn't in the words, it is in the use.…