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Hey hon, in before people jump on you about the thigh gap thing. You know, you could be as thin as a twig and still not have a thigh gap, especially if you carry your weight on the bottom. Some people just aren't built to have one. Thigh gaps are one of the things on here people will whale on you about wanting. Just pre…

I like it dark and grindy and the king of dark is Nick Cave - Abbatoir Blues is a favourite when sexytime rolls around ;) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eYPdxKEcvMw

So awesome, really well done!

AND AND AND..... Lucas Silveira (lead singer of The Cliks) :love:

Ivan Coyote - they are almost a celebrity :love: Then - Robert Downey Jr and Hugh Jackman :happy:

It's an unstoppable tide :)

Living this right now - shoulder and hip issues have meant I am struggling to lift - and my weight loss looks awful! I mean seriously awful. I looked better when I was heavier. 44 and the weight just doesn't come off the same and the skin doesn't recover as well. So, it's off to the doctors to try and sort my joints. It's…

Whooooop! Love seeing the love, congratulations to you both XX

EvanKeel talks sense. She has been upfront and honest about what she wants and needs from a relationship - have you been as equally sure and forthright about your needs? If you have been hurt previously and you need extra reassurance right at this point in time then you need to own that and voice it. And if she can't give…

What does aggressive femme even mean? I'm a femme - sometimes high, sometimes not. I'm also part of the queer leather community, predominantly as a top. Are you refering to dominant femmes? See, that label thing again - it can cloud as much as it clarifies :smile:

Queer femme. Own it, love it, it's really important to me - as much to identify what I'm not as what I am. Queer feels more inclusive. My friends always used to joke that I was a rubbish lesbian - I'm so tied up in the butch-femme dynamic that I can't really class myself as a lesbian.... and don't want to. Femme because I…

Hi My goals for this month were to meet my stone weight loss - done and done as MFP is 1lb out - and to maintain my eating I was supposed to be lifting again but have an ongoing shoulder issue which has been joined by a crazy sore hip thing - off to the doctors to see what the hell is going on as right now I am headnig to…

Single for over a year I kinda want to start dating and having sex again at some point before I die. And, to be honest, I want to be able to bounce around that bedroom like a crazy lady rather than get all up in my head about how huge my thighs are. Also, I read a lot of books that changed my perspective on life - The In…

Beautiful. well done :)

Oh poor me, I'm an emotional eater. You see what happens is I get upset and that forces me to drown my emotions in food - I really have no control over it. It's my pesky runaway never to be challenged emotions MAKING me eat all the foods......... I'm not saying emotional eating isn't a 'thing' - I AM saying that I gave up…

I can never remember what it predicted that far in advance anyway! Editted to say - somewhere in that sentence my tenses/timeline got seriously mixed up :happy:

What ar you eating for lunch? I do a 3 protein salad box - generally full fat cottage cheese, a boiled egg and some meat with loads and lodas of salad. Comes in around 400 calories but fills me up to bursting and keeps me going through the afternoon. My hunger seems to be mainly solved by lovely, lovely protein :happy: and…

One thing that is helping me this time around is making my evening meal really big by using loads of veg. Current fave is half a white cabbage sliced and roasted. When that is filling up your plate, with whatever else you are having, it takes you ages to eat and fills you up. I like that feeling of having had a 'big' meal…

Well done you!

Fabulous! Well done you :)

Buy expensive stuff, wear and resell Buy cheaper stuff knowing it's only going to be temporary If you have good quality clothing look to see whether it could be tailored Good will/second hand/Ebay - for some in between clothes It sucks in one way but in another it is AMAZING! Well done on your incredible loss so far

broccoli with garlic oil - finished with lemon juice and some grated parmesan White cabbage and/or leeks/aubergine/cauliflower etc - olive oil, salt, pepper and cumin - addicted to this at the moment

Ruddy amazing, well done sir!

Wine is ALWAYS worth the calories :wink:

Brilliant! You've done so well!

5'3 - and 44 YO. SW 180 - oh the horror! GW - 140 - I think that would put me right at the top of healthy BMI. Got a long, hard slog ahead of me but nothing is impossible - every day on here is evidence of that. When I get to 140 - or when I am comfortably back in my UK12 clothes (I've kept them all) I'll re-evaluate. I'm…

Awesomesauce! Well done :)

Awesome, you look fabulous!

Back again! Right this femme needs some queer energy on my newsfeed. This is my third time around and I mean it this time - oh yes I do. I have a butt to lift and rubber to wear and butches to lure and adventures to have and right now my body, and more importantly, my attitude to it is spoiling all that. I am perky but a…

Amazing - you must be so proud :)