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Amen sista, My SO NEVER talks about me to his friends or blasts me on the Internet and I love him for it. He has taught me so much about communication, taking the high road, and dealing with personal issues personally! It's so easy to run off and complain, poor me, poor me, poor me. It just makes it worse and gives you a…
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Perhaps he will learn to disrespectfully air dirty laundry out on in the Internet like his mum and take no accountability for anything. Honestly this is why I got rid of my facebook and social media accounts, people get so out of control with them. Does he have any idea you are doing this? Man alive, that's pretty low.…
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I haven't been on a forum for a while but you need to lose the weight. I haven't done much looking into things but it sounds like you have put on an astronomical amount of weight in a short period of time, why? Saying you can't lose weight because you are too busy is an excuse. We are all too busy, and it is not hard to…
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I have had all the same struggles and sometimes looking to where you want to be seems a place that is impossible to get to. For 3 or 4 years I stayed at the same place, I would lose then I would gain for various reasons. Gradually over time I stopped beating myself up over my weight and addressing the situation rationally.…
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Wowza! Looking good. I just ordered a kettlebell and some free weights. No idea where to start but I have the weights, and a DVD and I am ready to go!
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I don't think it takes long before you discover that there are a lot of polarized opinions on this site. And about 90% of people have ZERO sense of humor. So, that being said, if I had a topic I felt particularly sensitive about random feedback on, a smart person probably wouldn't post it. Whatever you do or say, there is…
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Calm yourself. Nope I have never played any of those sports beside Lacrosse when I was 8, hehe. I am so weak, you are right.... lol. That's why I ride a 1400 pound horse and run 15 km, must be so! I am talking about "skinny" as a frame of mind, ie, I want to be the best and healthiest I can be. And laughing at the same…
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Yup, everyone is different. I was also being facetious. Lighten up eh?! It's hump day?
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Agreed! Everyone needs to be happy -- whatever the weight is. That was part sarcasm, however, I think a healthy weight (BMI) is something to strive for. I get called skinny lots and I am 138 pounds and have a normal BMI, healthy and strong. That's what I mean.
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Nope. I don't. Skinny to me doesn't mean stick thin it means, fit, small, healthy. Makes me laugh. "Oh, I don't even want to be small" Umm ya, you do. You want to so badly you have to convince yourself you don't to make yourself feel better. Some people use denial or set themselves up to fail so they can say "they didn't…
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Lol we all want to be skinny... Don't kid yourself. But whatever helps you sleep at night I suppose!
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Who says she is crazy... you or him? Ever heard her side of the story? I always laugh when women date guys who have such a "crazy ex wife" then four months later they break up because the guy was "such an *kitten*" hmmm... who is the crazy one now. Just sayin'
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Don't obsessively weigh yourself... weigh once a week and you will get a better overall result instead of daily changes. In my opinion it is okay to only eat 1200 calories and not eat back exercise but there are differing views. You may want to bump them up as it is a bit extreme at your weight right now to only eat 1200.…
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I love it!
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Exactly what you said... it will get better. - but not in one week or two weeks or even a month. To me, stop blaming what you do on tracking, not tracking, whatever external thing you think it is. Tracking your food shouldn't make you hungrier, it should make you think about what you do eat when you eat it. If you want to…
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It won't be easy... the actual problem is that you ARE addicted.You need to re-generate your taste buds to enjoy and accept normal, healthy food. The more crap you eat, the more crap you need to feel satisfied. I used to despise all vegetables and now I can't picture a salad or sandwich without things like tomatoes,…
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Be mindful as well that it isn't that your clothes are fitting the same... they probably look A LOT better on you. I can shove myself into a pair of jeans and get them done up, but it still feels like I am being cut in half :laugh: But if I lose 10 pounds and I can slip them on and they fit comfortably that is two…
