doginsea

some very wise words there sunnykt. You've reflected very well a lot of the shifts in thinking that have helped me feel more at peace with my own dysphoria over the years.

Also wondering if you are on hormones? If not, then going on them would help you to get curves. If you are then it's possible that once your weight is stable the hormones will help you get more curvy anyway since your body will be changing so rapidly from weight loss that it might not be getting hte chance to feminise.

Hey, I'm trans myself and although I can't relate directly to your own experience, as I read this I can see how it would be pretty distressing. I realise that telling you that people come in all shapes and sizes and that health comes first etc etc is not going to take away that dysphoria. Heck, dysphoria rarely carries any…