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Nice smooth skin

He did everything with someone else before he met her, DUH!

So realistically, how does this work? You're with someone, you think they're the one - it doesn't work out for some valid reason....then what? You stay single for life so some 18 year old doesn't judge you? Or you get with a new someone, think they're the one, it doesn't work out...then what? See where this is going?

Wow I just can't even with this thread. But THIS, what?? Dude is a normal person with a healthy sex drive, that makes him a jerk?? NO. That does not make him a slut either. You are young and judgmental, understandable. I'd love to see your opinion on this in 5 years, I can pretty much guarantee that this guy isn't "the…

I wen once and it was so gross and trashy, the women were not even attractive - not at all what I expected! I expected busted faces but hot bodies but there wasn't even one. And the men just seemed so pathetic.

Yes to both questions...the first is more subjective. Personally I'm not a fan of big bulky muscles. A little definition/sold build is nice, but I'm not a fan of the cut chiseled bulky muscles. I dont want to cuddle with a rock lol, some women like that though! The second question....yes absolutely. I'm thinking the women…

bump, thanks!

Whoa i am 27.5% smaller than I think I am! Food for thought, thank you for sharing!

Almonds avocado hard boiled eggs air popped popcorn veggies - carrots, cukes, snow peas, tomatoes, radishes 100 cal snack packs yogurt fruit cheese

sounds good thanks!

I haven't given up anything - as long as it fits in my cals it's fine. This is a lifestyle for me and that's the only way it will work. I have cut down on a lot of things - alcohol, eating out, etc, but haven't vilified anything

That is still called a hip dip. Still just how you are built.

Sorry that's not how it works, unless you are talking about never taking them off and actually constricting your body 24/7 like corset training or foot binding, which I don't think you are. Google "hip dip"

Clothing didn't do that, it's just your body shape.

Can't see anything in your pic but ill go with Korean

Hi you can add me! I try to stay around 1200-1300 a day, and I log every day :)

Oh god, again?? This is NOT a fitness goal!

You only need the 2 spices - trust me, I'm Indian, grew up eating this every day. Daal is not complicated.

Well said! If being a good guy means being too passive to make a move or show interest, then yeah you're right, we generally don't want that. But you can be a good guy and still be assertive.

Always a good thing. BUT if you talk about how you're such a good/nice guy, you probably aren't so much.

I was saying I can help you, but ok.

Lol I can probably take 5 minutes and do it online. You need to look and be resourceful, not just give up when you walk by a store or open a site. If you just want to rant that's fine, but you have gotten valid advice in this thread if you actually want help.

Again, sales.

You have to shop sales. Look at the sale section. I got a dress from there for $12 the other day. If you are serious about wanting new clothes you have to put a little effort into it. And for pants, sounds like you need a tailor.

It sounds like a lot of your problem stems from not looking thoroughly then - going into stores and looking around, you will find plenty of office appropriate clothes at all kinds of stores. BR has tons of office wear, that's mostly what they are known for (I don't really have much casual stuff from there, but tons of work…

I'm not into Bond but will totally watch if he is Bond! He is sooo smooth and sexy omg. Yes I've watched Luther online - it's pretty good but I far prefer the Wire an him in it - the clothes, the glasses, yum!

Asos has some things like blazers that can be professional. And LoL at the BR comment, I'm a lawyer - the classic suits don't work for a law firm??? What kind of firm is this?

Plenty of stores have free return shipping - Asos, banana republic etc. and maybe make a shopping day trip to a nearby city?

I havent even heard of the movie... But stringer bell??? YES please!

Thank you for the wise words everyone! Glad to see I'm not the only one who feels this way - you all are right, this needs to be a lifestyle change and the time is going to pass anyway so I might as well do this. I've stuck with it for 6 months now - longer than ever before so I am trying to view it as a permanent…