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Also not true, my reduction was covered by insurance and I weighed 170lb at the time.
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Not true, it depends on the individual. Some people (like me) have mostly breast tissue so the breasts don't get smaller with weight loss. Other people's are mostly fat so they do get smaller/
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Bump
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Gorgoeous hair!
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While I agree with all the weighing stuff, a measuring cup is a standard unit of measurement - it's 8fl oz.
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Thank you! Not sure what this comment is about at all, like my standards of communication are so oppressive LOL. Whatever. He has a job with normal-ish hours but can't really be on the phone during the day, so until like 7ish PM its ok if he hasn't gotten back to me. He definitely has work stress, just started a new job…
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Yup, I agree with all this...and obv I think not writing back for 8 hours is not ok (not necessarily shady though), thats why I posted this. But he is not like that about his phone - I am and am constantly on it the minute he steps away, but he doesn't do that at all. He really is not a phone/technology person (and he has…
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Oh and you brought up the insecurities thing in reference to my not having him over yet, not sex, so not sure why that was brought up...him coming over/not coming over doesn't have anything to do with sex, we could just have sex at his place lol.
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Yeah exactly, I want all that! 2 years for me, and that barely counted, so 3 years in reality lol. Cliche but I believe that too - actually as I get older guys are all very understanding of that, waiting for sex has never been an issue. They usually show their douchiness before we get into a relationship so its onto the…
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These are certainly all valid reasons, but are absolutely not the only reasons in existance. You are right, low sex drive is not an issue, and I'm an atheist so thats not an issue. But neither is insecurity.. Maybe add another reason to your list? Personal values. Sex is an important meaningful act to me, something that…
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Lord I am a chatty person, and I think he is just more introverted and quiet, so yeah it is something I need to think about :\. YES exactly, like with other guys (or even friends!) they know what is going on with my life day to day so that brings up a lot of things to discuss- that isn't happening here so there is…
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Hmmm, interesting, I guess I never really thought about it this way. But in the beginning I did explain to him that it was a very intimate gesture to have someone in my personal space like that and after just 3 dates it was a bit too soon for - he was understanding and has not brought it up again. And I don't think it was…
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Yup, it hasn't even been 6 weeks yet! Yeah, I do think I actually just need to bite the bullet even if i'm not totally comfortable having him over just yet - we have hung at his house maybe 4-5 times so I guess its time. When we had the talk about texting last week though i did tell him I was planning on having him over…
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I guess if you just think of it like that - "10 dates" it sounds kind of long. But when we are not talking in between it doesn't seem long at all. There are so many things we haven't discussed, things I don't know about him and vice versa, so I am nowhere near ready to commit to him, that just wouldn't be smart. (And maybe…
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As I said, our dates seem disjointed - since we don't really communicate in between it is very hard to get comfortable and it doesn't flow as it would if we were talking all the time. Yes, I did tell him that but it was a month ago, that was way too soon - I actually was planning on having him over last weekend, but then…
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No. He is a grown man, if he wants to discuss exclusivity he can bring it up, and if he can't wait for sex I will gladly move on. We have been physically intimate, just no sex. There has been zero indication that any of this is a problem so I'm not sure where you are getting this from.
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Yes, I am going to talk to him about it again, and be very clear about what I want, and then back off I guess. Have I mentioned how much I hate dating?
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Ouch ok. I don't really agree with all this but I will think about it. I think it is very unfair to say he is a douche though, he seems like a genuinely nice and good person in all aspects of his life (and trust me, i don't say that about almost anyone). If he isn't that into me, fine, but I don't think that makes him a…
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Yeah I was not happy :\. I texted him around 3, then I called him at 10:30 (when we talked about this before, he said just call or text him again if i need to, plus i wanted to change the plans i originally proposed). His vmail was full (idk what thats about) so I texted him about the plan change. He responded in like 30…
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oops double post
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I was thinking this might be the case...I haven't actually told him I'm not ready for anything serious, we just haven't had the talk yet, but I do want to get to know him better before we get into a relationship. BUT I have been distant in some ways...he had me over for dinner on our third date, and after that hinted…
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Well the thing is, its like we already have general plans, but not a specific time etc, so I can't really go making other plans. Like today, we were supposed to go to the movies tonight, but didnt decide where to meet/what show, so thats what I was texting him about yesterday. I also really don't want to play games you…
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Crochet shorts????? Do not cut your own, buy some and have them tailored if they don't fit right, and make sure the rise is lower than the ones you posted.
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Your thighs are fne but those shorts need to not see the light of day.
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I feel sorry for the dancers & their pancake butts then!
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Errrrr......no offense, but thats not a bubble butt. Wear whatever you want.
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Uniform on, after 2 meals? Do yourself a favor and buy a scale, they are like $10 at Target
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Boom, there's your explanation, thread closed. Idk why you woud weigh yourself innacurately when you haven't weighed in 2 months...
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There is NO Way 20lbs is right - I had a breast reduction where they removed 3.5lbs total. I went from a G to a D - so there is no way what is left weighs 20lbs. Maybe 5-6lbs max. Same. I was required to lose weight before the reduction and the girls didn't budge - docs said it was all breast tissue.
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You are tall but not THAT tall, like I wouldn't see you on the street and be like WOW she is tall! And curvy is a great thing in my book - no matter your height! If you're worried about looking Amazonian you are absolutely nowhere near that.