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I absolutely agree. If it gets too hard, people just get out of it. Well, then the relationship isnt worth it anyway. We all fight our demons, everyone has something that they are insecure about or dont feel good about. A partner should be there for you and make you a better person. No one said it was an easy fight. But it…

Congratulations on your babydaughter, and on your decision to become a healthier you! :)) I am a mother. Not new. (Not new at all). My daughter is already 4 :D But I am trying to get this weight off once and for all. Good luck, momma!

To be honest, I have been in your boyfriends shoes, or at least similar ones. I used to be "hot" but gained a lot of weight during pregnancy and lost a lot of confidence with that. I was afraid that my husband feels that I am not the person he fell in love with, that I let myself go. Those were my thoughts not his. The…

Oh, I know how you feel!! I am super good with my nutrition while at work, and I take stairs instead of the elevator and so on.. But once I get home, it feels like I can "let myself go" again.. I work 40 hours a week, and I have a daughter, and household work of course... And just like you, my biggest downfall is just to…

Interesting question!! I think it depends, if you eat pure dark chocolate, I don't think it would be that bad, but milk chocolate or any other chocolate or cookies come with a lot of fat and carbs, unlike veggies and fruits, which are also a big factor in weight loss as well, not just the count of calories. I actually had…

Yes!! We went to my aunt's for Thanksgiving as usual, and she does a buffet style dinner... I picked white turkey meat, mashed potatoes and tons, TONS of parsnips (I love parsnips) and carrots.. It was so satisfying and I was so full my tummy actually literally hurt. I was so full, that I didn't even fall for my aunts…

@ quelly beautiful, positive personality, fun to have around @ linli you were too fast haha - cute and friendly

130? I'm not good at this at all... forgive me if Im horribly wrong.

1. Yup, 2. 2. My first one 3 years ago, and the last one 6 months ago. 3. The first one is my daughters name in Thai (I'm Thai) on my neck, and the second one says "Victory is sweetest when you've known defeat" on my forearm. 4. Nope. Will reward myself with more, when I lose weight :)

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Yup! I already logged breakfast and lunch. I portioned both smaller than usual as I know Thanksgiving dinner will be a big hit. We are going to my aunts, she does all the cooking (tradition, she invites all 30 family members each year).. It usually is buffet style, so I can "choose" what I eat and try to not have it that…

Thanks guys! Kathy, sounds much like my story. 5 years ago, i was a healthy 110 (5'2) girl and was absolutely happy with myself. Today, 65 pounds later, I cant believe that I let myself go for that long. Trigger was my pregnancy (4 years ago) that I used as an excuse to be lazy and eat for 5. From then on, I was up and…

Thanks I really hope I can achieve my goal. One step at a time. It feels like the millionth time I "try" to get this weight off me and be healthy, but this time its not a "great new diet" or pills, or the 0 cal diet, I want this to last and realize it will take much time, sweat and low days to get there, but Im ready to…