Therealobi1 Member

dont be sorry

I accept no one should live in misery. But some people make it out like its so easy to get through trauma. Just snap out of it. Sometimes something happens its so life changing it might take you more than 2 months to get over it. Others will brush themselves off and will be fine. So i guess if you cant wait you cant wait,…

doesnt sound like you are real friends anyway. forgot about her

Fantastic Well done

No one is forcing you to do anything.

Nope we can't force people to change but do we just abandon someone who is going through the worst thing ever

You forgot sex

I don't understand why people can't fathom the thought of having the best of both worlds... The wife isn't as attractive or appealing to the eyes....so why not have serious conversation followed by supporting her by figuring it out together, and becoming more healthier and doing more physical activities. Pick up a dancing…

Throw her stuff out and change the locks

well it definitely wouldn't make 20 plus pages.

well i had to ask the questions as its not clear in other posts.

dont feel ashamed, nothing wrong with wanting to change i was obese and didnt feel shame, even when i was on the spin bike trying to keep up with the class. i even learnt to ride a bike in the middle of a busy London park. its nobodys business. good luck wish you all the best.

you must have read my mind, it was my friend with cancer i was thinking of

is their any situation that requires a bit of kid gloving just a little

botched is such a scary programme to watch

never give up

plastic surgery can sort it all out.

I got the pity look from my mum, she offered to come and cook She is used to me now

P.s to all if you don't wash everyday regardless of size you will smell. Just wanted to point that out.

Not used it before but wish you good luck

There is never going to be a right answer

P.s I am upsetting spotlight let me know if I offend you

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I am really intrigued how your relationship went. You see for me I got big and my other half never said a word he even told me not too lose too much weight this is why I am fascinated by your posts. P.s are you allowed fat friends

Thanks for your update

Every one will have an opinion. Eventually they will get bored. Laugh it off and carry on with your journey. Just because they can't you can. Stick on mfp and talk about weight loss all day long if you cant at home. Good luck

Knowing that fat people are unattractive how come you let yourself get fat

If I haven't eaten which is highly unlikely I would eat, chill then bed

I know what you mean it's playing havoc with my eyes. I try and exercise before work Use stairs instead of lift that's about it

Not quite the same but understand the concept Brushing teeth and washing is hygienic and stops upsetting colleagues at work Logging is a really useful method but not essential for everyone