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  • just tell him and her that you go to lunch for the company, not the food, and that you enjoy their company and would love to eat with them most times
  • You're already on date 2-3 + it sounds like, so it should be pretty clear he's attracted to you, and unless you're a shapeshifter, he's got a decent idea of your body type. So you should squash some of that self-doubt as is, since you've already gotten to multiple dates. And for any self-doubt you have about your body,…
  • False. Although chances are he's self-conscious about things that you aren't aware of. And the drama continues. EDIT: This was in response to the one guy saying that the guy wasn' thinking about her body, only thinking about sex.
  • hold on, is your name Tara or Betty? :) Welcome and good luck, I recently joined myself and while it's no easy path, I'm finding the fact that I login here daily and try to force myself to log my food definitely keeps me accountable. Some weekends have been hard but I think long-term, holding yourself accountable to…
  • Sure do. Difficult to stop this habit. Also difficult to make an excuse like, 'well, since I ate poorly on Saturday night, I'll just do whatever on Sunday and start again Monday.' Brutal what your mind can convince you to do with enough resolve (in the wrong way)... I went to OA a number of times and unfortunately stopped…
  • 28 as well, can't tell you how many times I've avoided going on dates, ignoring requests to meet up with new girls, etc because I still needed to 'work on me.' Used it as an excuse so many times. Ridiculous thing to think. Hope 2013 is our year to get to a point where we are comfortable with ourselves and improving…
  • Good luck on your journey, I think for those of us with long paths ahead, it's more about lifestyle changes to make better health sustainable...hope the new year is off to a great start!
  • Hey Ali, Good luck with your goals, I'm new to the site as well and on a similar journey as well, will gladly add you as a friend here. Wrote a little intro myself. http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/834184-28-obese-likes-to-drink-heavily Happy new year!
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