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I have no advice that hasn't already been covered, but I just wanted to wish you the best. Divorce is hard enough on its own and it's even harder when you're not the one gunning for it, even when it may be 'for the best.' Take care.

Haha, well, we weren't perfect, but I do like to think we were more than a couple of teenagers in lust. Like, we were totally in our twenties when we met, for example.

As long as the cousin didn't murder the husband, should be ok. If the cousin did murder the husband, there is some potential for the child to get a little Hamlety I think, and that really didn't end well for anyone.

Haha, we need to turn this around. "Ugh, I'm fat, I'm ugly, I hate myself, ... I'm going to have some cake!" No! You don't give cake to people you hate! You only give cake to people you love. People you hate, you wish them an eternity of burpees! You give them an all you can eat buffet... of KALE! You send them a bunch of…

It's your goal, you do it or you don't. If posting this somehow motivates you, well. That's cool. Hey, awesome! I'm much heavier than you. I don't think of myself as gross, lazy, or fat. This makes me feel SUPER. :flowerforyou: edit: Ok, I do think of myself as fat. Fair enough.

Yeah, there are some cult-like similarities, and I guess it can be fun to call them cultists if you like... But I think it does a disservice to the term when there are actual, harmful cults out there--such as the one many celebrities belong to.

Man, five pages of cheating stories sure makes me think, "Boy, I want to go out and get me into a relationship!" :laugh:

I have to remind myself that I'm doing this for my health, for my fitness, and if I lose weight, it's an added bonus. We get so tied up in the aesthetics of it all--what size we are, what we think when we look in the mirror, will we have loose skin or seem more wrinkled, etc--that we forget that that is actually the very…

Aw man, c'mon. Do we have to get all graphic here? I think I remember being a size 14 and I don't think I had a dimply butt. Dimply butt is fun to say, though. Dimply butt dimply butt dimply butt.

On one hand I totally agree with you, but then on the other, more cynical hand... You know how they (usually) already charge us more to buy plus size? Imagine if they had to get special mannequins!

I like the idea. I'm not sure it would really make a difference to me because my lumps and glumps seem to be in different places--I just don't have a streamlined body, no matter what size... But the truth is that clothes come in all sizes to fit people of all sizes, and many people respond more favorably to things that are…

Pretty much. I don't log if I eat a jelly bean or two, or a hard candy (20 calories, tops), but I know that I've had them. It's not a matter of being honest or trying to hide them or anything; I simply don't bother. If my weight loss starts to stall, I know exactly where to look first, logged or not.

Shh, your insecurity is showing. You don't actually own him, believe it or not. Even if he says you do.

I knew, but he insisted on telling me. Like, he went out to the bar after work, got drunk, got into A Situation, came home and woke me up to tell me. I think it was 2:30 in the morning. "I cheated on you." "Awesome, can we talk about this in the morning? I'm sleeping." "No, this is serious, I CHEATED ON YOU." "Right, and…

lol, I wish I really had it! I get the cheese bread from a local pizza place. The 'recipe' I have is basically just a 'I dunno the specifics, but It's probably AT LEAST this nutritionally corrupt,' hehe.

I have a recipe in my diary called "Saturday Night Cheese Bread of Awesomeness" which pretty much sums it up. Everrrry Saturday night.

Augh, I was just heading off to bed, not hungry, all content, blah blah now all I can think is PIZZA PIZZA PIZZA. I'm still not hungry, and in fact just finished a smoothie and am almost uncomfortably stuffed, but PIZZA PIZZA PIZZA PIZZA PIZZAPIZZAPIZZAPIZZA I know what I'm having tomorrow. (eggs).

Maybe not in some flavors, but I have occasionally come across a glob of blueberry. I'm not really a fan of "crunchy in my mushy" either, but I've come to tolerate the blueberries because there are only a couple in a cup.

You could up it slowly, 100 or so calories a week, so you don't feel like you're diving in the deep end. Good luck! Hope you find you feel better :)

Ohh, hey. I'm having one of those "I'm not real bright" moments. I'm not a huge apple fan, but I noticed at some point that people were going on and on about Honeycrisp apples and I thought to myself, "Self, you ought to try those things!" So I did, and I thought they were good, or you know, not bad, but hardly deserving…

Not sure what your age is, but it's a good thing HAWT has no limits! Fabulous job!!

We all get a wild hair sometimes. I found this thread to be pretty entertaining, so hey, something good came out of it (at least for me). :) And if he does it again, just deadpan, "Your wife must be one tough babe." He'll spend the rest of the day trying to figure out what you meant by THAT. ;)

Uh-oh, Ian says you don't have the right to be irritated. Are you going to just sit there and take that? *popcorn*

Absolutely! You'd be amazed at the things some guys can conclude are come-ons. :) Breathing, for example.

He was totally asking you out. I mean, asking you to fight.

I don't not believe in them, if that counts. :)

My friends who continued to play were either very good at the sports they were involved in, or they had a good (best) friend who was also involved in the sport. Or they were trying to appear well-rounded for their college applications.

It is unkind to mock, Mr. Unkindpants.

There are a lot of great answers here! I agree with most of them, either remembering them in myself or seeing them now in my daughter and her friends. Another one for me was an increased sense of 'self.' I was a chubby kid and really awful at sports/gym, but in elementary school I never really paid attention to the fact…

Ideally, someone who is awesome and puts up with me.