John_m_c

I'm here too, just joined and looking for some pals to make this less of a chore!

I think some people have hit the nail on the head when they refer to issues concerning stress and self-consciousness. However, I think we need to be honest about the over emphasis on 'the look' in gay club culture. When I was younger (cooler/better looking/thinner/spent a fortune on clothes) I never felt good enough and in…