paulygi

Wow some people get pretty upset when you talk about a gym. Its just a room with equipment you can't afford to get all together. I think of the Rocky film where he trains with the logs in the snow and chopping wood, etc. And the Russian is using all the digital crap machines. Who won again, the guy with heart. The world is…

Hi there. I've fould cinnimon to be a great appetite suppressant. I add it to my shakes. On apples. In oatmeal. And in tea. Read up about it, something to do with helping level your sugar levels, which if not level will cause hunger. Works for me.

I hear ya. Same thing here. Tell them it hurts you when they say stuff like that. My wife laid said to me, my man doesn't eat salad everyday, you're not the man marrierd (told ahe was right I was 30 lbs lighter then), and I didn't sign up for this (I reminded her our vows was in sickness and in health and that she wasn't…

You nailed it. Keep up the good work.

If she had it her way she'd be at every practice. We love watching the kids play hockey.

Difficult situation getting a baby sitter for 6. But the kids are all at school pr daycare all day. She works around the house most days. Shops others. The thing is 6 kids in not too hard. We don't really think of them as a job though. Hockey season is here now so she'll get plenty of time talking with the others moms at…

Thanks. I told thanks for the salmon and I love you too. Made my day.

Got it. Thanks. She baked me salmon today. ♥♥♡♡.

Nailed that one. She said that in her own way.

You dont need a gym to strength train. Start youself off with situps pushups squat s. If you can do them pullups, I haven't tried yet. Walking is best for fat loss. I don't eat calories allowed by exercise.

We spoke about it again last night and the words came out. You're not the man I married, this isn't what I signed up for. And my fav , my man doesn't eat salad everyday. I reassured her that I'm not going to give up on US. And that we did both sign up for sickness and health, this I can remember discussing the wording.…

Mine has gotten pretty rough. I'm working with her and hopefully we make it out. Atleast for the moment I can say the weight loss has felt efortless for the last week. Going to talk to my doctor about it tomorrow. Oh and I decided for myself that surgery wasn't the answer. That if I was willing to go through all the pre…

Great suggestion. And hey I'm not perfect I just can describe everytging that is going on very easily. She is a great person having a problem with change.

Agree but someone asked. Its hard to explain the problem without being honest about everything. As for the couple counseling, that would imply I am wrong somehow and willing to bargain or compromise. But I have nothing to compromise, I'm on the weight loss train to slimsville and its a one way ticket.

Thank you for all the great replies. This issue comes in a very close 2nd to lossing the damn weight.

Thanks for that.

I tell her all the time that she is the sexyest. To me she still is. We are going to talk tonight some more. Thanks

Not exactly. She had complained to me that I wasn't trying to help her. So I told her anytime she wants my help I'm here. She then a week later started talking about the gym so I encouraged her. Unless she was testing me with some sort of game I'd say she was atleast interested. I have told her numerous times I love her no…

Thanks for the honesty 2fat. I hope I can last till she cracks, I really dont want my kids to live in a broken family. It makes planning a wedding seating chart really annoying. :)

Yes she is overweight, I was her eating buddy. Ive offered my help to show her the tools. I dont use the gym yet. Mostly walking on work lunch. I do situps pushups and squats about every 3 days at home. Using runtastic apps for that. I have to also say that I am approaching her weight making her the bigger one as she put…

Im doing all the work because I feel she and the family are very worth it. The youngest that she gave birth to is 9. We foster so there are 4 more after that. I have started to show here way more affection in public. I held her hand through the mall. I even wanted to take her to a jewelry store. I have thos crazy idea…

She is flat out telling me shes unhappy and like the old me. I've changed too much. I can see she all the classic traits of the jealousy. Makes jokes about and my new gf that doesnt exist. Very cold in bed and not temperature wise.

Stony Mountain. Just broke 50lbs loss milestone. Had lost ten while on spark website.

Thank you to everyone who has contributed. It definately helped me figure out how to start to fix this new problem. To the person who started this what is the situation today in your house?

I started in June at 335, was down to 295 by August. Weight was falling off almost effortlessly. Got stuck at 293 till this week (6 weeks of frustration). And finally after evaluating my intake I reallized that eating back calories lost from exercise really didn't work. I was letting myself snack too much and getting too…