StardustZiggy

I agree we are different and he doesn't have to do it my way. Honestly it's all the sugar he consumes that worries me. Milk doesn't worry me as much. Hell if he reached for the 2% milk when he was thirsty instead of the soda I'd be a happy camper. He doesn't know how to cook and has no desire to learn. He does like salads…

Sorry, for some reason this site is really lagging for me and I am trying to reply but it's being weird. Anyway I run the finances and do all the shopping (his choice not mine, so I don't get attacked for controlling that too). True the budget comes into play when we have to buy his and hers so to speak so I usually just…

Sorry, for some reason this site is really lagging for me and I am trying to reply but it's being weird. Anyway I run the finances and do all the shopping (his choice not mine, so I don't get attacked for controlling that too). True the budget comes into play when we have to buy his and hers so to speak so I usually just…

1. We don't. 2. I don't. I just want him to make better choices and try new (healthier) things he might actually like if he'd only try. And to tobemotivated. Thank you for the kind words. No I don't mention it everyday/everytime.

I'm perfectly fine with everyone saying let him do his own thing. What I don't like is being attacked for something I know I don't do and even someone going as far as saying "just break up." to my husband.

The sneaking food to him was a JOKE hence the "...what? it's for his own good" and the smiley...

My definition of nagging is to be on his case constantly which I am not. So sorry if I am beyond help.

Clearly everything I say is going to get attacked. Also if we are resorting to images, here is one for almost all of you.

How so?

He's more than welcome to, but as I said a few times already I am not constantly saying it.

Someone else who could relate and give ideas, tips, recipes, anything that might be more appealing to him and make him want to eat healthier.

The reason I said it feels like he is a child because of how he reacts when I try to tell him things. He'll get mad and or sulk and not even try to see where I am coming from. I don't say it to nag or not let him have what he wants I just want him to be well. For most part I don't mention it, but when he is on to his 4th…

Exactly! What is wrong with letting him know it's not the best choice???

I do see them and appreciate it. It may not seem that way because I feel attacked for most part for something I don't even do.

LMAO! This has actually turned laughable. I threw my husband under a bus and said how horrible he is? The food he eats does not make him who he is, it is just a poor choice. My husband is a damn good man and I never said otherwise. I never said I was perfect either, if I was I wouldn't even be here needing to lose weight.…

I hardly mention it to him, that's why I was looking for advice on here and just someone who could relate. I wasn't aware I stumbled up the Stepford Wives. I'm done here.

You all mean to tell me you can sit back and watch the person you love do something you know is bad for them and say nothing??? So when he gets diabetes I should just say "That's okay honey...what's that? You want another soda, coming right up!"

I think you all need to realize you know nothing about me and my marriage other than what I posted. If that makes me a difficult wife, a nag, and a controller so be it.

What makes you all think I nag, because I asked on here? Most of the time I don't say anything, that's why I am on here asking what to do!

Let me point some things out...Check where I put the **'s...

Wow. I came to a fitness/weight loss sight for tips on getting my husband to eat healthier and so far that makes me controlling and a child?

He won't have the diet version of anything. He also doesn't have to do things my way, which 99% of the time he doesn't.

First, I didn't mean to make it as controlling as it sounded. I just really worry about his health, probably more than my own. He drinks way to much soda and consumes a lot of sugar that no matter how you look at as me controlling him, it is not good. I get that he is a grown man and we are different people, I'll be the…