ShandiH Member

I found this out about a month ago with a similar post. It comes down to an approximate 50/50 split in opinions; doesn't matter if you ask doctors or your every day person. The next poster is going to discredit/disagree with the previous one and any valid (i.e. not someone's opinion) is forgotten and not posted. Do what…

Congrats!! :flowerforyou: :drinker: :drinker:

Love this perspective!

I'm sorry to be so frank but you need to change your definition of "supportive". Most have said "lead by example" and while I agree, your husband's supportive-ness DOES NOT equal him doing exactly what you're doing. Yes, it is difficult to have the food in the house but remember "nothing tastes as good as skinny feels" and…

Hands down, the black one! Both look really good on you but the black just has this classy sexiness about it.

Thank you! I needed that encouragement today . . . and well done!! :drinker:

OMG!!! You look FANTASTIC!!! :flowerforyou: :drinker:

I agree with other posters that there are other underlying problems that need to be addressed. Please do what is right for you and any children you might have. My parents stayed together for 45+ years when they shouldn't have. I have a messed up idea of what a marriage is because of what my parents modeled - something that…

Ummm, your are just perfect! :smokin:

Do either of you have any tips I can use to help my husband? He was bullied by his older brother and all his parents would ever say was, "You need to be the peacemaker." I don't believe he's overcome it just yet. There's much to say about those who can be the peacemaker but there comes a point when you just can't be the…

^^^This.

^^^This too . . . major red flag.

Amen. Couldn't have said it better.

They are the ones with major issues. I can imagine how difficult it would be/is to live with unsupportive family/friends. But, as others have said, you are doing this for the right reasons and the only thing you can do is keep on striving to be that good role model. Maybe one day when they're giving you flack say something…

Looking awesome! Nice abs! :drinker:

Thanks; so simple but great idea! Asking myself why I didn't think of this before!

Thanks for the post! All good ideas! (99% of them anyway)

My goal is 125 but my ultimate goal (I'd be ECSTATIC to reach) is 115.

My opinion, move on to someone else. You confessed. She said 'thanks, but no thanks." Time to move on.

I'm not a guy but I just can't stop myself from commenting. I agree with the above post. If he already knows you are interested and still dances back in forth from acting like he's interested to not then he may just want to be friends. It's not an answer you may want but it just may be the truth. Don't ignore either . . .…

Awesome and well done!! :drinker: Love those epiphanies!

We're close. Height: 5'3" Age: 30 SW: 230 CW: 222 GW: 125

Great attitude! Love it!!

Me neither . . .

No, you are not one of the ones I was referring to. :smile: Guess, I don't understand why it's a hot topic . . .

Thanks for all the posts, opinions and some just count to 10 and calm down. It's not like I don't get *plenty* of water in a day. I personally prefer water to most drinks. I was just curious to what extent you can classify some drinks, like coffee, as your daily 8 cups of water . . . curiosity kills the cat, eh?

You look FABULOUS! Congrats and well done!!

Way to go! Good on you for not letting her ruin you weight loss!!

Awesome feeling!!! Can't wait until I'm kicked out of that club!

Wow. What was her reaction?