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I'm still waiting on elaboration on the military mindset, since I consider that statement to be a bold one.

He's not controlling in other aspects although he can be intrusive if I want to spend less time with him and more time with friends, but nothing that I would deem as out of the ordinary you know?

What's the mindset then? I might be missing something, cause other military men I've dated have not acted this way. Besides he's fine in other aspects, just not this one.

I'm capable of doing that myself. I can track my own food intake as well as my own fitness goals. I don't need someone monitoring that for me. He doesn't know what else I've eaten that day, maybe I made room for it in my day?

I HAVE explained this bluntly. No jokes or giggles. I've said everything in this post to him in person NUMEROUS times and he says he understands but then the next day it's like nothing happened. If I show up at the gym and he's there, I don't ask him to leave. But see that's rare because he only decides he wants to go to…

When I was 13, this boy told me every guy in the school looks at me with disgust because I was so fat. I cried for days and faked sick for a week. Then later at 16, that same guy asked me on a date because by then I was thin, and pretty and stuff, and I told him that I still remember that, and that I literally hated him…

We aren't really competitive in other aspects. I do say things like that to him, and I do wear headphones, but eventually never comes ????

For me, it's more savory food than sweet. I will skip dinner to eat 5 servings of lays classic chips. I'd not eat all day to dive into a massive portion of homemade shepherd's pie. Oh and brownies. LOVE brownies. Ohh and guacamole! Can't do small portions of that stuff

I do IF :-). eating 2,400-2,700 calories one day, and 300-400 calories the next, so I average around 1,500 calories per day. I do weight/resistance training, but I'm certainly not a body builder lol. So I won't be too helpful when it comes to bulking, but I can be an IF buddy :-)

I binged when I ate 1,200, 1,500, 1,800 and 2,300 calories a day. 2,300 was a surplus, by the way. So it's not about calories all the time. For me it had most to do with the constant pressure of calorie counting. Even if I was eating a lot, knowing that I was still restricted by numbers whether it be at 1,200 calories. Or…

I do ADF, eating 2,700 calories one day (when I eat, I want to ear A LOT lol, I still weigh and measure everything though) then the next day I eat 300 (If I don't start eating, fasting isn't a problem, I usually make a big salad and graze on it all day). Yeah. Try explaning that to people lol. I literally just say how you…

I do ADF, but I still weigh all my food and track my intake on feeding days. I generally eat 2,700 calories one day, then around 300 the next then back to 2,700, etc. I absolutely love it. I feel free from food. First it was hard, I was always thinking about food on fast days, always hungry, the same way I would be if I…

I generally have breakfasts around 400 and 500 cAlories, which might be too high but my breakfasts are: 3 oz grilled chicken chopped in an 1-egg 3-egg white omelette, with olives or spinach in a tortilla, with toasted coconut almonds, just to get something sweet but still filling A large salad with 50 grams of kale, 100…

Party cake ice cream<3. Literally crave at least three times a week. And white cheddar puffs :D

Classic, crispy, salty lays!

+1 for hookah! What flavor?!

Supervising a kids movie night, like I do every Saturday night until 10:30 :) trying so hard not to munch along with them on popcorn and chips ahhhhggg.

I was never much of a pudding girl D: but I do use it to bake cakes!

Honestly, I'd probably eat it and if I'm super hungry, I'll just go to bed to not go over my calorie goal lol. Planning to have it around 9:30 pm anyway (cause that's when I'll get home from volunteering) so it'll be close to bedtime since I work at 7 am Sunday :) and...i'll probably be too lazy too cook that…

oops! my bad lol, fixed :) but see that's what I'm saying!

Everyone seems so ambitious...I just want to lose 10!

He said she joined sometime in January...that's still pretty new. Anyway, if you read what all that I had to say, you already know I do think it was wrong of her to not rack her weights. But it's wrong of him to loudly and rudely say RACK EM. then come on here, acting like some defender of justice. He was just as rude for…

You dont care about how much she lifts...you don't care about her lugging her things around...you just dont care..so why mention it? You know what else we learn in pre school? Tone. You dont have to say something blatantly rude to imply judgement. Your tone speaks volumes. Like the difference between enthusiastically…

I totally get being irritated at not racking weights. It drives me nuts too...but you ARE acting like a bully (as well as others commenting) because you're judging and mocking her based on her every move. You're not just ranting about her not racking weights. You're rolling your eyes (metaphorically) about her carrying her…

Ack is right D: at least that wasn't malicious though, you know? Some people just don't think things through properly :embarassed:

I know!! My gym is 24/7, once the clock hits 11 it all goes down hill D:

You know, next time I see him, I'll be sure to ask him to repeat his statements once more, this time on camera, for your verification. Sound good? :huh:

Mines in a plaza right next to Abercrombie lol so if anything it's motivation :-P there's also a super market, a chilis, Starbucks, an ulta beauty in the same plaza.

This isn't some weird sadistic masochistic abuse based relationship. He's not paying her to freaking urinate on her. Chill. it's just a silly game. He's not paying her to do lose weight. He's reinforcing what she already wanted to do by setting something tangible at the end: money. Not all couples share funds. And If they…

I love hiking and going on walks with mine as well :) but actually going to the gym, Ehh lol