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Pip … you've probably noticed by now …. missed toes on the 4th pair of prints from the bottom. I think it looks great so far. Went to the dentist this morning to repair a large chip in a tooth near the front. Novocaine in the front means a numb nose. Anyways, it looks pretty good … and it better … it was pricey. Barbara ……

Mo … An option for the student loan … we used College Avenue when taking out a parent loan for our son (not a parent plus loan). We always went with the fixed rate. I'm looking at their site right now and fixed rates start at 2.89%. https://www.collegeave.com/student-loans/parent/. They're highly rated.

Pip … one of the reasons my husband bought the truck he did was because it was a "red" … cranberry/maroon color. He didn't like all the grays and refused to buy a white truck. We live near Buffalo you know … lots of snow and white is just a stupid color in a snow storm. I like the interior of the car you did decide to…

Rebecca … Tucker was a beautiful dog. Hugs to you and your sister. Mo … my husband and I made our son take out the maximum amount he was allowed under the federal student loan program (his debt, not ours) and we paid the balance after substantial scholarships that he received. Still, it was a boatload of money. At first we…

Lisa … you have no idea how many posts I've written over the years and then deleted before posting on here. I have to censor myself constantly. I agree with what you and everyone else has said to Allie. Allie … Remember you are loved! So loved by so many. Praying your daughter will grow up someday and come to recognize…

Debbie … your mom's fears and concerns will diminish significantly if you are with her in the future for medical appointments. No one can take the place of family… and given you said you have POA and I'm assuming her health care proxy you need to be there to get facts straight. The doctor really shouldn't have been talking…

I got behind on the posts … Carol … Happy Belated Birthday! Allie … I'm so sorry that your daughter lashed out at you … hugs Lisa …the sweater is great! Mo … glad to hear that the job prospects are looking much better for your husband. Yesterday, husband and I took a long, but beautiful, drive to pick up a fire ring for…

Carol … so sorry you were the victim of a scam. My parents received a similar call a few years ago and it was very difficult for them at the time to discern whether it was real or not. Don't beat yourselves up too badly. Heather … love John's photos of the sunflowers! My husband and I celebrated our anniversary yesterday…

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Meeting with the dealership manager … not perfect (their mistake will still cost us in the long run due to the error going through financing), but we're satisfied with the given solution. Beth

Heather … thinking of your step-daughter and her community … devastating. Rebecca … gas pains are miserable… sorry you're having to deal with them. Carol … the mattress still seems "saggy" to us, but we're sleeping on it without discomfort … so we'll give it a little more time before calling the manufacturer. Barbara ……

Kylia … you look fabulous in your dress and heels! Kay … congratulations on meeting your health goals! Pip … your newest pup looks very content. Ginny … thinking of you as you move to your new digs. I'm of the mindset that all changes, even positive ones, have a component of grief as well. (Loss of familiarity, memories,…

Ginny … Happy Retirement! Barbie … thanks for the August thread! Kelli … the male friend requests, messages are ridiculous. I delete. Goals … I stayed the same weight, but my overall blood labs showed improvement so I'll count that a win for July. However, my August goals are to move more, be lighter September 1st and be…

Michelle … you are not a short order cook… your daughter and her husband can and should provide their own meals or ask if they can join you for dinner and then contribute to the cost. Carol … my husband had his MRI for his back yesterday and we're now waiting on the results. My doctor's appointment went very well except…

Pip … Ethel looks perfectly at home with you all. Congratulations!

Lanette … I add shelled edamame to stir fries! I love their texture. Breast surgeon dismissed me as a patient today. Six month follow-up mammogram was perfect, exam was perfect, no changes so I'm dismissed with the words and "we hope we don't see you again." Yay! Back to regular yearly mammograms. Visited my mom who was…

Spoke too soon about the new mattress … the d%&* thing is sagging?!?! A call into the store and the manufacturer tomorrow. Beth

Flea … retiring is scary. My husband retired after he turned 62 and I retired later the same year at 59. We never had boatloads of money and working longer would not have significantly changed that. The death of our son that same year, a broken leg, family members failing health … all reminded us that life is so very short…

Rita … I don't think I've said it before, but I love your jokes at the end of your posts. They remind me of my dad who would have loved them too. Thank you! Kim … I don't know that anyone can do better than you at keeping costs down on a consistent basis. You are the Queen and Lisa, Machka and Rita are close seconds! I…

Kay … Jasper is a cutie! Family drama is exhausting. Hope it settles down sooner rather than later. Ginny … a tornado! Glad you are ok. Tina … 70% increase in health insurance? My budget wouldn't sustain that without major modifications but I also wouldn't be without health insurance. Celebrated my mom's 94th birthday this…

Barbie … I discovered recurring charges on my son's bank account after he died. The most difficult ro resolve were those connected with internet based services, but after explaining the situation, every single one either completely refunded or prorated the amount refunded. Beth

Allie … you are loved by so many. How very nice of your cousins wanting you to be with them. Rebecca … looser clothes is big win! Lisa … tell me more about this battery operated gas pump. We hate our current gas cans. 1. Because they leak when pouring and 2. Because they're too heavy. Beth

Annie … I agree that bragging is different than encouragement/praise from parents. But I also think that encouragement/praise from parents has gone off the rails in some homes, setting up unrealistic expectations and disappointments when those children are faced with real-world experiences.

Debbie … use one of our stories as the reason why you're bringing the subject up about the future/POA/etc. Something like a friend was saying how many legal problems arose when her dad died…(you get the drift) and then just casually ask about her situation and could you review it with her as the discussion with one of us…

Lisa … glad to know that my weirdness validated your weirdness! LOL! I like the new glasses too. Before, I saw your glasses … now I see your face. Praising education … interesting topic. I suspect that the era you grew up in and the culture you lived in determine your experience with academic praise and expectations. Times…

Lisa … I can't sleep with my Apple watch on my wrist! In fact I can't sleep with my wedding rings on either … they "agitate" me in some way. So I don't get the benefit of the sleep functions, but then I don't really need a watch to tell me if I've slept good or not …

Took me a while to get back to you all. Wanted to catch up on the posts. New Truck … On Sunday, in brutal heat, my husband and I went looking at trucks while the dealerships were closed. Interestingly, many dealerships still leave the vehicles unlocked, so we were able to get in to some and see how they fit. Of course,…

Leaving to finalize paperwork and pick up new truck … I'll be back later! Beth near Buffalo

Annie… I agree with Barbie that routines/structure are very helpful … not just for the caregiver but also for those with dementia. My mom has become very stable now that her days follow a regular schedule and pattern. Cupcakes … my mom will be 94 this month and we have been taste testing cupcakes from various stores in our…

Flea … oh darn. I had hoped you had a recipe. I have a very large cauliflower in my fridge and since I'm not overly impressed with cauliflower as a vegetable, I thought to make something spectacular with it. I will check out the frozen cauliflower crusts though. Tracey … my mom will be 94. She is in an excellent nursing…