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Allie ... I know that this is not apples to apples... but I want you to know that my first son was born at 24 weeks gestation back before a lot of the new therapies were available for preemies. I was told he would die in 24 hours ... he lived nearly 35 years. He had physical disabilities but he was incredibly intelligent.…

Ginny … wow! Stitches are no joke… Heather … so glad you’re healing! Kim … yay for the new dog sitting gig! Beth near Buffalo

Margaret … the peonies are beautiful Beth

Meg … welcome back! Lanette … yes my balance was off for about 2-1/2 weeks after the surgery. It is fine now. I’ve experienced in the past what you’re describing with fluid/stuffed head and something like Claritin/Zyrtec has always helped. The inner ear is a fussy little bugger! Beth

Tracey ... I don't find Jeans all that comfortable either but I wear them anyways. They keep overeating in check! I live in Buffalo and follow the Sabres hockey team. Since they didn't make it to the playoffs, we were rooting for NY Rangers and now that they're out of play we were rooting for the Oilers (Lost to Dallas…

Ginny ... Hi Ginny! I'm so sorry your brother is experiencing hallucinations with his Alzheimers. My mom had one night of delirium and it was all I could handle. I understand the belief that you take care of family at home. It's how my family has always done things. I've been struggling with the reality of my mom's…

Barbie ... Thank you! Heather ... Great news that the surgery went well and you are now on the road to recovery! A Place For Mom ... Forgive me, I can't remember the name of the woman who used this agency for her mom. I used them to help confirm my choice when my mom needed assisted living. And their ratings and…

Kay ... Thank you

Lanette ... audio books and podcasts have been recommended to me as well. In my case, I need to use the captions at this point ... but its purpose is to have the brain recognize words with sounds. The goal is to not need captions or lip reading in the future. I'd consider the implant a huge success if I could accomplish…

Annie ... it's not high pressure sales ... it's the reality of extensive waiting lists. There are literally no beds in the area available for my mom in long term care (except one and it's incredibly depressing and small). I've placed applications with places I wish she could be in so that if a bed opens up (i.e. someone…

Lanette ...My brain is definitely in a scramble! :D An example by Dr. Carol Flexer was used this past week in one of my hearing rehab sessions that most people misunderstand hearing loss; thinking they can't hear because of their ears. In truth, the reason you can't hear is that the brain isn't able to decipher auditory…

Flea….wonderful news!! So very happy for you!! Vicki … praying for you as you mourn the loss of your dear friend… hugs. Beth

Annie ... your aunt is giving you good advice. Your dad doesn't tell you when he gets lost because he doesn't know he was lost or remember that he was lost. I understand that the house issue is a big problem. You need to call your sister and get the advice of elder care specialists in your area. Visit some memory care…

Food Fussiness ... who doesn't have food preferences? Shame on those who point out a preference that is different than their own ... The cochlear implant was activated! It's long so in a spoiler. Beth near Buffalo

Allie ... Ginny brings up a good point ... Has she decided about working after babies are born? It was my experience after the birth of my son that regular daycares and even babysitters would not accept special needs children. Not to mention the twins are going to need a lot of attention. Machka ... I agree with Heather.…

Lights ... I guess people saw beautiful lights here in Buffalo last night too. I was too tired to get up and look personally, but I'm enjoying everyone's photos. We've had rain today and cloud cover so I suspect this evening's viewing will be limited. Allie ... Your daughter has a rough road ahead of her, but I anticipate…

Lanette ... since I have profound hearing loss in both ears, we decided that using a bimodal approach might give me the best results. The implanted ear will not use a hearing aid. Some studies recommend not wearing a hearing aid in the other ear for a period of time so that the brain retrains with the implant only. My…

Heather ... I'm so sorry the pain is worsening. Your surgery can't come soon enough. As for the celebratory meal ... I'd probably go with the Gnocchi, Asperges and any one of those dessert choices. Of course, my high school French has been sorely tested here and I'm not quite sure what all is in each of the dishes ... but…

Barbara ... Joe IS listening! <3 Carol ... praying your husband's appointment goes well ... Rosemarie ... 9 pounds is a lot! Congratulations! Rita ... hoping the RV move is calm and peaceful if necessary. Praying your anxiety/panic is kept at bay. Welcome ... to the new posters. Cochlear Implant Update Beth near Buffalo

Evelyn ... so sorry to hear of your recent losses. Ginny ... I made a promise to my dad before he died that I would take care of my mom the best way I knew how. I fully intend to fulfill that promise. I'm also blessed that I have a husband who supports me in doing so. Medicare Hearing Aids ... when my mom was still in…

Allie ... we never stop worrying about our kids, regardless of their age or our age. Today my husband took me to my mother's (age 92) facility because she was becoming overly distraught that she hadn't seen me since my surgery. Didn't matter that the staff had told her on Monday and again yesterday that I was ok. She…

Barbie ... thank you for the new thread! Welcome ... to the new posters! Had my cochlear implant surgery on Monday. The surgery went well, but I am experiencing post-op dizziness and equilibrium issues. Unfortunately, they're getting worse each day but hopefully should start to recede soon. A common side-effect of surgery…

Allie … hugs and prayers… Beth

Annie ... sorry you're still under the weather ... lot of viruses out there right now Terri .. lovely photo and love the color of your hair! Matchka ... I like the blue and white combination. You are going to have a beautiful home. Memorial this morning. Very nice but l.o.n.g. The deceased had been in the navy (nuclear…

Machka ... you are very talented with the camera! Rebecca ... I like your new haircut! Michele ... I'm surprised your church hasn't done background checks before now ... they really are standard protocol in today's world. Sadly necessary. Annie ... hope you feel better. Lisa ... I find anything medically related…

Rebecca ... I forgot to mention that I liked the short haircuts. Just a caution if you go short though ... styled short hair requires more frequent hair appointments. Annie ... I've been bouncing through the same 10 pounds for over two years now and I'm tired of it. I know what I need to change but don't seem to have the…

Carol ... so sorry that you have experienced another loss. Hugs. Lisa ... I understand your decision to say "no" to the Watchmen at this time and I also understand how hard it is to say "no" to something that would benefit your health. Tracey ... I am appalled by the stories of disrespect and misbehaved children in today's…

Debbie ... I purposely have chosen a female GYN because she's gentle ... won't even use stirrups because she says so many older women have hip problems and complained. She then reassessed the reasons for stirrups during annual exams and said they weren't needed. I've been asked if interns can observe and I've been ok with…

Annie ... you said: "Everything financial passes to my sister who will split it up." This sounds unusual to me. On my mother's will (and my late father's will), which I am the executor of, everything is to be divided equally between my brother and I. Since my father's passing, as we changed account ownership into my…