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I agree. He lived in my hometown when we started talking. My plan was to move back there, and then it never happened at that time. But we just kept talking. I moved back about 3 months ago. So, that's why we haven't met earlier.

Thanks everyone!!

How long do guys typically wait until they let you know they like you romantically? :-S

Thanks for the replies. He seemed very quiet when I first arrived but by the end, was playing around and seemed really relaxed. I really don't want to analyze everything he says and does, I just don't want to put myself out there if he doesn't like me back. Should I ask to hang out again sometime? Or should I wait til he…

So, guys usually dont touch girls they arent into? Even if they are just playing around? I feel so stupid asking this stuff!!

So tonite didn't quite work out. I had texted him in the morning, asking if it was still okay that I come over. He said yes, that the invitation was still there. Then for some reason I texted him in the afternoon to make sure that I could come over, he again said yes. Then for whatever reason, I texted him again in the…

Yeah, so I'm going to do the total opposite of what I did with the last guy I saw. lol. Hopefully it turns out better.

Well, he hasn't exactly seen me when I am standing up, so I can't say for sure or not if my weight isn't an issue for him. But I totally agree about me letting go of the weight issue!!

I didn't text him all day and I got a text asking why I hadn't texted him all day and should he be worried (said in a joking manner). So I think me chilling out and acting relaxed about it all is the best thing to do.

Thanks to all of you. You are all right. I just have to chill out!

Thanks for the reply. I don't think this was a real 'date', and I also dont think us hanging out this weekend will be an actual 'date' (if I even go that is). I told him straight that it takes me awhile to relax around someone, and that I just want to hang out for awhile and get to know each other. I guess if we've been…

You're right. I over think things WAY too much. I just have to realize that if he didn't want to hang out, he wouldn't have asked me in to his place or over again this weekend. I have this constant need to always know the status of things, or how someone feels. I know that reeks of insecurity, but I can't help it! But, if…

I would hide my profile. If I was seeing someone and he was into me as well, I would be a bit pissed if I knew he was trying to talk to/meet other girls. I feel you should see one thing through before going on to the next.

We met. We were supposed to meet in a few days and hang out for a long period of time but I told him I would prefer a quick meet before then to see if we get along. No sense meeting up with someone and having to stick around when you don't get along. Anyways, he mentioned to me he was going to grab something quick to eat,…

We met. We were supposed to meet in a few days and hang out for a long period of time but I told him I would prefer a quick meet before then to see if we get along. No sense meeting up with someone and having to stick around when you don't get along. Anyways, he mentioned to me he was going to grab something quick to eat,…

This isn't bodybuilding.com forum and the misc, so stop using their lingo :P

Yes! Go Crixus!!

Yeah, I understand all the 'he isn't worth your time if he doesn't like you for you' stuff, but my whole thing is just wanting to avoid the initial shock of him seeing me. I just wanted to let him know. If I told him I was overweight and he said whoa, I'm not into that, then that would have been cool, not everyone likes…

Thanks for the advice. I just wanted to be upfront with him about it, so it didn't come as a shock. It just sucks that he won't believe me about being overweight! I thought the camera was supposed to add 10lbs?! lol.

LOL, nah, I'm 5'6. Not smokin'. :)

I got the Ninja for Christmas. It works!! it blended up my fruit to make a good smoothie (most blenders dont blend the fruit to smooth, just with chunks) and you definitely can make icey drinks with it, it turns ice to snow as they say on the informercial. I'd recommend it!

I would say that if the word 'babe' weren't in there, it could be harmless, but I'd be concerned about it. Hugs.

No, I am losing weight to be healthier, to feel better about myself, etc...

No, I pretty much accept that fact that right now, I wouldn't be too attractive to the opposite sex lol. It isn't really upsetting me because I know it's true. I just need to get back on track with this for myself, and to show everyone I can do it. I previously lost almost 100lbs so I KNOW I can do it, I just don't know…

I work at two different veterinary clinics. 1 clinic will not even perform the surgery any more as the Doctor thinks it is not worth the pain and potential complications to the pet. The other clinic I work at still performs that procedure (which I have assisted in). If this caused the animal no pain or discomfort, why do…

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I think people make time for things that are important to them. We do what we want to do, and we don't do what we don't want to do (minus working and things like that ;) )

Thank you for responding. It helped a lot!!

I was watching the movie The Mist the other day and Sophia's Mom, Andrea AND Dale were all on it together!