oblair Member

West London here!

I just turned the full length mirror back around. I hope it doesnt disappoint me.

My ex was my dream girl at school who I randomly ran in to last time I got in shape. She didn't remember me but said she thought I was too good looking for her. We dated for six months but things didn't work out. She like almost all of my exes is one of my best friends now. I do this weird thing of treating women like…

This isn't match.com. I will accept anyone with similar goals to me..

It should be a big difference. Try on some clothes that didn't quite fit before.

You can ad me. I have been a bit **** a few days in the last couple weeks but I'll weigh myself tomorrow and will be happy with any loss.

I have lost over 10kg in 60 days but nobody at work has mentioned it. However a pair of jeans that didn't fit before are falling down now.

I have no idea how to post a pic...

Test... This has been me many times.

I was just saying what works for me. If I have a trainer telling me what to do I will kill myself trying to do it cos i'm a proud person and don't want to let myself or anyone else down.

Grow up? I was trying to give you motivation and you were ****ting on it. I don't think there was anything infantile about my response.

You don't have to want to be ripped you just have to be a man of you word and tell your trainer who is motivated by exercise what you plan to do.

West London here.

Sometimes, but this is not one of those times.

You might fare better by using your inside voice.

If you have trouble staying motivated use the scorn of other people as your motivator. Make friends on here and be honest about your experience. Hire a ripped personal trainer who is aware of your progress and will call you out on your bullsh1t. Or you could find a form of exercise that you love where weight loss is the…

I have been eating clean and once I'm in to the routine I find it easy. I have always been all or nothing. I have gained and lost weight about five times in my life. Once I start looking good again and start dating pretty girls again I seem to be unable to care about my caloric intake. This is why I get fat every two years…

Its scary how you don't notice the weight going on. One day you look in the mirror and realise you are heavy again.

i mean 33-23

23 and 33 I cant guarantee that 43 will perpetuate this trend.

I think 175 is unrealistic as that is what I got down to when I was 23. I much more muscular than I was then but so 185 is probably more like it. Part of my motivation this time is the fact that i'm 35 now and will hopefully still have my looks when I get in shape. I don't want to do it in 5 years and realise i'm old and…

My turning point was when I was buying the largest size of jeans in the shop. I refuse go to a special shop to buy my jeans, I don'.t know or care to know how. Luckily I am able to fit in a smaller pair of jeans after only dieting for 20 days.

5 to 10 in 84 days?

Everyone has an opinion on what you should be doing. In my experience everyone has their own insecurities which get in the way of them giving advice in your best interest. Trust your judgement and that of your trainer as you can trust your own motivations. I had a friend tell me he prefered me fat without confidence as he…

My ideal goal was a loss of 75lbs, 244lbs to 175lbs but I think 185 is more realistic as im much more muscular than I used to be.

The first step is facing up to it. I have lost 8lbs joined an expensive gym and have actually looked at myself in the mirror.

finally sorted hopefully....