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Yes and no. If asking her with entirely platonic intentions then asking her both times isn't likely to be that different. Only difference is out of respect for her OH and relationship could just ask him or at least acknowledge him when asking. If it's platonic married/single/in a relationship make no difference. At some…

First off to the op, if you get on well with her, you may get on well with the husband as well as often will have similar personailty, so maybe extend the offer to her and her husband as well, then if he decides he isnt interested etc, at least he knows you were not excluding him. As for the people saying men and women…

Can't see your calorie intake as diary is private, but are you certain you are taking in enough calories to provide you with the energy to do all the exercise you are doing? I know in the past I was trying to eat very low and exercise a lot and I was constantly tired (am talking falling asleep at desk at 3pm), had…

Yep mostly, though did buy a few tops (in size L!!!!! big thing for me, used to XXL or tight in XL) this weekend, but generally I am refusing to buy new clothes till am down to the target weight/ body fat % otherwise will have to buy again. And also gives me the motivation to get there.

Struggle with both, but trying to work my way through. Feel free to add.

I am quite shy so that avoid standing out in a crowd but love bright orange or green clothes. I once played a full game of rugby with my ankle broken in 2 places, having done it walking down the steps out the changing room,, and didn't go to hospital till 2 days later. Am dyspraxic but like playing team sports, mainly…

Nope mine although not quite fitting criteria was definitely positive. Anything else might have left things with a bad taste. As it is its a great memory.

Songs are amazing in the film. Pretty much this, no rugby, gym and run a couple of times.... not much else.

Not really, but guess could say with a danish girl met while scuba diving in Thailand, but doesn't really count as weren't around each other long enough to know whether more than just a temporary crush. We were basically inseparable 24 hours a day for the only 2 weeks that we were there, we both considered staying there…

I make turkey, spinach and goats cheese burgers with minced turkey. Serve between 2 portabello mushrooms instead of a bun. Below picture is with sweet potato fries and asparagus.

Wanted to go to one of these myself but can't afford it right now. www.theislandexperience.com Would be good way to just recharge though.

Was dumped on 28th December, after her and her eldest daughter had spent Christmas with me and family at my parents house. No real warning, and did so over text after ignoring first few attempts to contact her, it was only when I said I felt like I had done something majorly wrong that she replied, told me I hadn't but…

A long way to go yet. Edited just to add, the progress in some of these other pics is awesome and puts mine to shame!!

On first thought I don't necessarily feel intentional pressure from people but it is noticeable when everyone around you starts settling down, getting married, buying houses and having kids. My social circle revolves a lot around my rugby club, which I now run the bar for and live above, whereas most of the people my age…

Don't be too hard on yourself, as long as you leave it at one day its not going to damage your progress long term. Everyone has blip days.

Agree mostly with this. In terms of eating back your exercise calories it depends what your aiming to do at the moment. If maintaining then by all means eat some or all of them. If trying to lose a bit then maybe eat back fewer, but overall looks like a healthy amount to me (on the proviso that i'm no expert so its just my…

At the moment yes, as I am still trying to lose, if I was maintaining or trying to bulk then might be less deligent

Wouldn't say have overcome it yet, but am working my way towards trying, so feel free to add me if you like.

Hmmm I know what you mean in general, but my ex is one of my closest friends and she might be toxic for me but most of that is my own fault. I run the private bar for my sports team and she is the team physio, as well as sister of 3 players and daughter of one recent player, so cutting loose is unlikely.

I confess I don't understand my own head. Am out drinking, well not out, but in the bar I run. I'm missing the person I now like big style, but was drinking with my ex and her something year old daughter (I know but not saying in case of disapproval). I guess am looking for approval from both for some reason whilst wishing…

No way i'd pay for it. Not that i'm not a big fan of hugging, but for me it has to mean something, either comfort, greeting or affection with a friend or family. Can't beat a hug with the person who you have feelings for, but with a random stranger would mean nothing especially if you knew they were only doing it because…

Last one with the elephant riding. Reminds me of my travels. Good times.

Long way to go still but here's my change between now and 2011.

Mines open, so feel free to have a look or add me if you want. On here every day.

I said will you let me take you out for dinner. Didn't specifically label it as a date but dont think that implies mates either.

Haha. Straight to the point. To dinner.

True but in this situation I don't think it's either. I'm keen to see if there is something more but not at the cost of her friendship so its about balancing things.

Well she said yes..... sort of! Said we will definitely work out a night for it soon. Not sure if thats a delaying etc tactic tho!

Well its done. Have asked. No response as yet, but probably a mistake! And jq2122 things aren't always quite that simple. As ive said before my friendship has no conditions on there being anything else, its not the sole reason I hang out with her.

Running the rugby club bar as usual this weekend so trying to get a theme going. Getting in the Guinness obviously, green food colouring for the lager, and a few other drinks like Baileys, and Dooleys. As long as our opposition don't drop out (cos they're trying to!), I will be cooking an Irish stew tomorrow to serve…